Seeking a rich man

Raziel

Renita Nope. I don't know her that well and if she's in a hurry to escape, that isn't a great reason to force myself to knowing her better to see if a relationship can happen, plus, I'll stick to being anonymous for now. Although, if you want to marry a woman, you could offer yourself and get to know her better. 😉

Renita

Raziel Although, if you want to marry a woman, you could offer yourself and get to know her better.

Thank you for advice, but I'm straight 😃

Vanessa

Angelina

Sure,it should not be taken into account,at the start of a relationship,And,even later,it should not be a major issue which could damage the relationship.

Angelina

I like your answer! 🙂

Angelina

Same.I want to be able to be financially independant.

Raziel The real question is if you'd change continents to be free from chastity? If you were to move to the USA or Europe or elsewhere, would you?

If only for this reason,it would be extreme!

Raziel Also, take time to know someone than be in a miserable relationship with someone you barely know. Marriage is a life-long commitment. 😉

I agree.

Angelina

Vanessa Sure,it should not be taken into account,at the start of a relationship,And,even later,it should not be a major issue which could damage the relationship.

it should at least not lead to a separation or divorce, unfortunately I have heard that several times 🙁

BikelockFugitive

You could marry me, get the belt removed, then magically "disappear from the radar"😛

Vanessa

Angelina

I agree.It shouldn't,but still happen...

Christine Coz I'm not worse than others.

You should tell you're better than others,it's more positive and attractive!😉

Christine

James the question I'd ask is why should I take you?

Coz I'm not worse than others.

Raziel The real question is if you'd change continents to be free from chastity?

I don't need to go so far. A next door is enough.

Angelina

Christine

a little further you should go 😉

Angelina

Vanessa You should tell you're better than others,it's more positive and attractive!😉

that's true, but at least she is very honest with herself even if I feel that a little bit more self-esteem should be nice 😉

Christine

Vanessa You should tell you're better than others,it's more positive and attractive!

Ofc. But @James would disagree.

Vanessa

Angelina I feel that a little bit more self-esteem should be nice 😉

I agree.

James

If a potential boyfriend/girlfriend would ask me why I'm better than other women,and to prove it,I would think he/she's not worth dating,and don't waste my time with him/her.

Angelina it's about how you see yourself, that's much more important 🙂

I agree with it too.

James

Christine Ofc. But @James would disagree.

I wouldn't disagree. I would ask the obvious next questions? How? Why? ...and prove it.

Angelina

Christine

so what?

it's about how you see yourself, that's much more important 🙂

Angelina

Vanessa If a potential boyfriend/girlfriend would ask me why I'm better than other women,and to prove it,I would think he/she's not worth dating,and don't waste my time with him/her.

that's exactly how i would react. i think it's very selfish when someone gets me in trouble like this, either someone loves me or he/she doesn't. i am myself and don't have to prove anything to anyone 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina

I agree with you;if someone wants you to "sell yourself" by telling your qualities,why he/she should choose you(a bit like as in a meeting with a potential employer),in a relationship,it is not ok,and won't lead to anything good.

Same if your partner ask you to change who you are to please him/her more.

James

Vanessa I agree with you;if someone wants you to "sell yourself" by telling your qualities,why he/she should choose you(a bit like as in a meeting with a potential employer),in a relationship,it is not ok,and won't lead to anything good.

Okay, you took that waaaaay too literally. I’d never ask a girl that. I just mean that if you’re in a potential relationship with options, don’t you weigh which the better one is? If you have two pretty girls - one has manners, and one doesn’t, I’d just smile and choose the mannered one.