Vanessa You should tell you're better than others,it's more positive and attractive!πŸ˜‰

that's true, but at least she is very honest with herself even if I feel that a little bit more self-esteem should be nice πŸ˜‰

    Christine Ofc. But @James would disagree.

    I wouldn't disagree. I would ask the obvious next questions? How? Why? ...and prove it.

      Angelina I feel that a little bit more self-esteem should be nice πŸ˜‰

      I agree.

      James

      If a potential boyfriend/girlfriend would ask me why I'm better than other women,and to prove it,I would think he/she's not worth dating,and don't waste my time with him/her.

      Angelina it's about how you see yourself, that's much more important πŸ™‚

      I agree with it too.

        Vanessa If a potential boyfriend/girlfriend would ask me why I'm better than other women,and to prove it,I would think he/she's not worth dating,and don't waste my time with him/her.

        that's exactly how i would react. i think it's very selfish when someone gets me in trouble like this, either someone loves me or he/she doesn't. i am myself and don't have to prove anything to anyone πŸ™‚

          Angelina

          I agree with you;if someone wants you to "sell yourself" by telling your qualities,why he/she should choose you(a bit like as in a meeting with a potential employer),in a relationship,it is not ok,and won't lead to anything good.

          Same if your partner ask you to change who you are to please him/her more.

            Vanessa I agree with you;if someone wants you to "sell yourself" by telling your qualities,why he/she should choose you(a bit like as in a meeting with a potential employer),in a relationship,it is not ok,and won't lead to anything good.

            Okay, you took that waaaaay too literally. I’d never ask a girl that. I just mean that if you’re in a potential relationship with options, don’t you weigh which the better one is? If you have two pretty girls - one has manners, and one doesn’t, I’d just smile and choose the mannered one.

              James

              @Vanessa

              exactly, i agree with you 100%, this is a big problem in job interviews, but in a relationship it's a no go

              @James

              the girl with the good manners would be me πŸ˜‚

              but seriously, I would question the oppersite

              why the girl should choose you as her husband πŸ˜‰

                Angelina why the girl should choose you as her husband

                Lol true. My point is both people ask these questions.

                  James

                  of course both ask this question, but this should not always be said openly, especially at the beginning of a relationship

                    James If you have two pretty girls - one has manners, and one doesn’t, I’d just smile and choose the mannered one.

                    Somebody would choose one with bigger boobs πŸ˜‚

                      James

                      No;I follow my feelings for my partner.It is unlikely I love both the same.

                      Angelina this should not always be said openly, especially at the beginning of a relationship

                      Sure.Or it would make it fail very quickly,I think.

                      Laura

                      🀣:

                      Angelina

                      But I think it can be pretty clear before we go too far in the relationship.

                        Vanessa But I think it can be pretty clear before we go too far in the relationship.

                        luckily that's true πŸ˜ƒ

                        Renita Chastity bra eliminates it πŸ˜ƒ

                        yes, I know πŸ˜‚

                        Renita

                        Yes...I'm not sure if it is an advantage or not,however...It could help us avoid people wanting to date us only for our "physical advantages",but make dating,in general,more difficult.Except for some cases,like meeting someone on the net(like meetic or similar),the first thing which could make someone attractive is the look and the "physical appeal",even if,after the first contact,we would like the personality,the sense of humor,etc...And a chastity bra reduces the physical appeal.

                          Vanessa It could help us avoid people wanting to date us only for our "physical advantages"

                          It was joke. However chastity belt alone doesn't hide your beauties.