Sara2001 Anything else would be very restrictive. Nothing I would accept.

good that you set limits 😉

    Angelina

    But it may be different in a relationship,too.

    Sara2001 Anything else would be very restrictive. Nothing I would accept.

    Good!🙂

          Vanessa But it may be different in a relationship,too.

          if a family relationship can be regulated by a contract, the same can also apply to the relationship with our boyfriend/girlfriend 😉

              Angelina

              Hum,it is a bit formal and not very romantic.And I think the rules in a relationship can be more complex.

              Have you a contract with Camryn,too?😉

                  Vanessa

                  not yet, except the contract with my father 😂

                  but camryn is very open for this system, but currently it still works very well as it is, maybe when we are engaged or married 😉

                      Angelina

                      It would be logical to do it only when the relationship is more "formal",like after being engaged,yes.

                      Was she surprised about having to agree to a contract with your father?It is pretty unusual,I think.

                          Vanessa Was she surprised about having to agree to a contract with your father?It is pretty unusual,I think.

                          I've already prepared her for this. 😉

                              Angelina

                              Wasn't she suprised the first time you told her about it?Or does she understood and accepted it very easily,and quickly?

                                  Vanessa

                                  of course she was surprised and found it a little strange at first

                                  but I told her that this system works very well in our family and that I would be very happy if she accepts this system 😉

                                      Angelina

                                      I think it is pretty unusual,but good it works for you.

                                      And I guess it wasn't very hard to accept;some of the rules were probably harder to get used to(like no intimacy during several weeks).

                                          Vanessa like no intimacy during several weeks).

                                          of course it was hard, but it was just at the beginning 😉

                                          it is unusual, but this system has many advantages for me and unconscious misbehaviour is very rare 😉

                                              Angelina

                                              Yes,as you knew it would not last long,if your relationship was strong,it was easier to manage;even if it would have been very hard for me to accept...

                                              It seems you liked this system,yes,and,even if I think it is a bit too formal,as long as it works you,it is good!🙂

                                                  Vanessa

                                                  it works very well and if camryn agrees, I would like to use it later with our children 😉

                                                      Angelina

                                                      Not surprising you would use this system with contracts in your family,as it has worked for you well.

                                                      Don't you forget some parts of these,as it seems there is a lot of these?

                                                          Vanessa

                                                          of course i sometimes forget certain things, but i have a copy of the contracts and can read everything 😉

                                                              Angelina

                                                              Do you read these again often,or are you used to the main rules,and know the main parts well?

                                                              And,when you read it,do you notice some rules not very useful or fair now,and so,want to discuss these again with your father?

                                                                  17 days later

                                                                  Vanessa

                                                                  I know most of it by heart, sometimes I reread certain things

                                                                  i always have to talk with my father about the contracts shortly after my birthday, because the contracts are valid for one year 😉

                                                                      Angelina

                                                                      Have you got several ones at the same time or one by one?If it is the second case,I guess it is easier to remember these.

                                                                      Is there many changes after these reviews?

                                                                          Vanessa Have you got several ones at the same time or one by one?

                                                                          sorry i do not understand this question

                                                                          Vanessa Is there many changes after these reviews?

                                                                          there are rather few changes, most of them have to do with i getting older 😉

                                                                                Angelina sorry i do not understand this question

                                                                                Had you to read and learn several contracts the same day?Or had you enough time to read and learn a contract well enough before doing it with another one a few days later,etc;..?

                                                                                Angelina there are rather few changes, most of them have to do with i getting older 😉

                                                                                Logical.