Angelina

It would be logical to do it only when the relationship is more "formal",like after being engaged,yes.

Was she surprised about having to agree to a contract with your father?It is pretty unusual,I think.

      Vanessa Was she surprised about having to agree to a contract with your father?It is pretty unusual,I think.

      I've already prepared her for this. 😉

          Angelina

          Wasn't she suprised the first time you told her about it?Or does she understood and accepted it very easily,and quickly?

              Vanessa

              of course she was surprised and found it a little strange at first

              but I told her that this system works very well in our family and that I would be very happy if she accepts this system 😉

                  Angelina

                  I think it is pretty unusual,but good it works for you.

                  And I guess it wasn't very hard to accept;some of the rules were probably harder to get used to(like no intimacy during several weeks).

                      Vanessa like no intimacy during several weeks).

                      of course it was hard, but it was just at the beginning 😉

                      it is unusual, but this system has many advantages for me and unconscious misbehaviour is very rare 😉

                          Angelina

                          Yes,as you knew it would not last long,if your relationship was strong,it was easier to manage;even if it would have been very hard for me to accept...

                          It seems you liked this system,yes,and,even if I think it is a bit too formal,as long as it works you,it is good!🙂

                              Vanessa

                              it works very well and if camryn agrees, I would like to use it later with our children 😉

                                  Angelina

                                  Not surprising you would use this system with contracts in your family,as it has worked for you well.

                                  Don't you forget some parts of these,as it seems there is a lot of these?

                                      Vanessa

                                      of course i sometimes forget certain things, but i have a copy of the contracts and can read everything 😉

                                          Angelina

                                          Do you read these again often,or are you used to the main rules,and know the main parts well?

                                          And,when you read it,do you notice some rules not very useful or fair now,and so,want to discuss these again with your father?

                                              17 days later

                                              Vanessa

                                              I know most of it by heart, sometimes I reread certain things

                                              i always have to talk with my father about the contracts shortly after my birthday, because the contracts are valid for one year 😉

                                                  Angelina

                                                  Have you got several ones at the same time or one by one?If it is the second case,I guess it is easier to remember these.

                                                  Is there many changes after these reviews?

                                                      Vanessa Have you got several ones at the same time or one by one?

                                                      sorry i do not understand this question

                                                      Vanessa Is there many changes after these reviews?

                                                      there are rather few changes, most of them have to do with i getting older 😉

                                                            Angelina sorry i do not understand this question

                                                            Had you to read and learn several contracts the same day?Or had you enough time to read and learn a contract well enough before doing it with another one a few days later,etc;..?

                                                            Angelina there are rather few changes, most of them have to do with i getting older 😉

                                                            Logical.

                                                                  Vanessa

                                                                  it always depends on the situation, when we discuss our contracts after my birthday, there can be many contracts at the same time, but i get a few days to read everything in peace before i sign

                                                                      Angelina

                                                                      Good you have time to think about it,it would not be good to accept(or not)rules in a hurry....