sun This is true. My point is, by offering her the belt, you were asking to take a role of authority. By choosing to stay in the belt, she accepted your authority. And now a bond exists between the two of you that you may not fully understand yet.
Story of me and my wife
sun When I say you took away her control over pleasure, I’m not condemning you. I’m a belted wife myself. But I’m saying that the act of giving up control may have triggered a more obedient side of her that she didn’t really know about before.
Saintprudence
If you chose to wear a chastity belt yourself,I think you are different from my wife.Because she maybe doesn't know what a chastity belt looks like before I asked her to wear one.
sun I did not entirely choose this of my own free will. For reasons described in my introduction, my wife decided it was best for my own good that I remain locked. I reluctantly agree with her on this but I do not always like it. If not for her strong will, I would not stay belted.
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Saintprudence
Maybe you are right.I'm not sure.As I say I will make more conversation with her.Thank you for your advice.
sun you’re welcome. I apologize if I sound rude. You are of course the best judge of your wife. I’m just trying to offer insight from a belted wife’s perspective.
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Saintprudence
You needn't to apologize.I really don't feel in that way.And I really think your advice is helpful.If my poor english make you feel something wrong,I'm so sorry.
sun I think you and I are both fine, thanks!
sun Our Laura has sacrificed and continues to sacrifice for someone she hasn’t even met yet. Out of all of us, she may have it the worst!
Saintprudence Our Laura has sacrificed and continues to sacrifice for someone she hasn’t even met yet.
Her future husband will own her more.
sun like many of us, she has little choice in the matter. These things have locks for a reason.
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She bought herself a long jean skirt and bought me a shirt yesterday.Since she is tired for shopping ,I didn't lock the belt yesterday night.When I lock her chastit belt up today morning,she didn'n ask me why I gave her a night break.And she didn't mention the secondary shield too.
Today,we talked about her dressing style.I knew she has a white short yarn skirt before marriage,she liked it most.She never wear it after marriage.I asked her why.
She gave me the reason:A young wife should dress conservatively to make other people know she was married.That can avoid some unnecessary trouble.
I think she is more careful than me in life.
sun Can you tell us why you decided to belt her to begin with, and then keep her locked up? You indicated an overall interest in chastity before you married, but I’m not sure of your motivation in keeping her belted now.
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Saintprudence
That's what I want to share.And there are somethings I haven't thought about clearly myself.I also need explanations for myself.Considering my poor english,it may be a little bit difficult.