Saintprudence
If you chose to wear a chastity belt yourself,I think you are different from my wife.Because she maybe doesn't know what a chastity belt looks like before I asked her to wear one.

      sun I did not entirely choose this of my own free will. For reasons described in my introduction, my wife decided it was best for my own good that I remain locked. I reluctantly agree with her on this but I do not always like it. If not for her strong will, I would not stay belted.

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          Saintprudence
          Maybe you are right.I'm not sure.As I say I will make more conversation with her.Thank you for your advice.

              sun you’re welcome. I apologize if I sound rude. You are of course the best judge of your wife. I’m just trying to offer insight from a belted wife’s perspective.

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                  Saintprudence
                  You needn't to apologize.I really don't feel in that way.And I really think your advice is helpful.If my poor english make you feel something wrong,I'm so sorry.

                      sun Someone think she is a submissive wife.She was different when she was my girlfriend.She changed a lot.

                      What was she like?

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                          James
                          At that time,I think she was a common girl,a little sensitive,always hoped I can pay more attention to her,had many demands.Sent many messages to me everyday.Discussed almost every thing with me.We even had several quarrels during that period.

                              sun You deserve respect from your husband for your sacrifice.

                              I don't have a husband 😂

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                                  sun Our Laura has sacrificed and continues to sacrifice for someone she hasn’t even met yet. Out of all of us, she may have it the worst!

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                                      Saintprudence Our Laura has sacrificed and continues to sacrifice for someone she hasn’t even met yet.

                                      Her future husband will own her more.

                                        sun like many of us, she has little choice in the matter. These things have locks for a reason.

                                          She bought herself a long jean skirt and bought me a shirt yesterday.Since she is tired for shopping ,I didn't lock the belt yesterday night.When I lock her chastit belt up today morning,she didn'n ask me why I gave her a night break.And she didn't mention the secondary shield too.
                                          Today,we talked about her dressing style.I knew she has a white short yarn skirt before marriage,she liked it most.She never wear it after marriage.I asked her why.
                                          She gave me the reason:A young wife should dress conservatively to make other people know she was married.That can avoid some unnecessary trouble.
                                          I think she is more careful than me in life.

                                            sun Can you tell us why you decided to belt her to begin with, and then keep her locked up? You indicated an overall interest in chastity before you married, but I’m not sure of your motivation in keeping her belted now.

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                                                sun I think she is more careful than me in life.

                                                More like men don't grow to expect relentless social judgment and harassment.

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                                                    Saintprudence
                                                    That's what I want to share.And there are somethings I haven't thought about clearly myself.I also need explanations for myself.Considering my poor english,it may be a little bit difficult.

                                                        James
                                                        I can't feel how a woman feels.Just like I think it's ridiculous to be afraid of a cockroach.

                                                          sun I understand. Maybe we can all help each other. I’ll try to make it less complicated, and help you narrow down your feelings. What do you feel when you lock her in? What do you think every day when you remember she’s belted?

                                                            When I knew there was something called chastity belt in the world from a magazine,I was very young,about 14-16 years old.There were no pictures and details of chastity belt in the magazine,I only knew it can prevent a woman from having sex.I was a little curious what the chastity belt look like then.