Laura
You mean you always have the secondary shield?

    sun You mean you always have the secondary shield?

    Yes. All the time.

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      Laura
      You are great.How long did it take you to get used to it?

        sun You may be underestimating the power of a belt. As soon as you married her, you informed her that her orgasms belonged to you. You took away a natural and pleasurable function that nearly every other woman in the world can access without any trouble. And more importantly, she accepted your authority when you took this away from her. I think being belted would make almost any person naturally more obedient and submissive to the person who locked them. Even the girls here who hate the belt tend to reluctantly accept the authority of whoever placed them in it. In fact, those who could otherwise escape choose to remain locked out of loyalty to their keyholders.

          sun How long did it take you to get used to it?

          About a month. But I started with mom's old belt.

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            sun This is true. My point is, by offering her the belt, you were asking to take a role of authority. By choosing to stay in the belt, she accepted your authority. And now a bond exists between the two of you that you may not fully understand yet.

            sun When I say you took away her control over pleasure, I’m not condemning you. I’m a belted wife myself. But I’m saying that the act of giving up control may have triggered a more obedient side of her that she didn’t really know about before.

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              Saintprudence
              If you chose to wear a chastity belt yourself,I think you are different from my wife.Because she maybe doesn't know what a chastity belt looks like before I asked her to wear one.

                sun I did not entirely choose this of my own free will. For reasons described in my introduction, my wife decided it was best for my own good that I remain locked. I reluctantly agree with her on this but I do not always like it. If not for her strong will, I would not stay belted.

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                  Saintprudence
                  Maybe you are right.I'm not sure.As I say I will make more conversation with her.Thank you for your advice.

                    sun you’re welcome. I apologize if I sound rude. You are of course the best judge of your wife. I’m just trying to offer insight from a belted wife’s perspective.

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                      Saintprudence
                      You needn't to apologize.I really don't feel in that way.And I really think your advice is helpful.If my poor english make you feel something wrong,I'm so sorry.

                        sun Someone think she is a submissive wife.She was different when she was my girlfriend.She changed a lot.

                        What was she like?

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                          James
                          At that time,I think she was a common girl,a little sensitive,always hoped I can pay more attention to her,had many demands.Sent many messages to me everyday.Discussed almost every thing with me.We even had several quarrels during that period.

                            sun You deserve respect from your husband for your sacrifice.

                            I don't have a husband 😂

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                              sun Our Laura has sacrificed and continues to sacrifice for someone she hasn’t even met yet. Out of all of us, she may have it the worst!

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