Story of me and my wife

Vanessa Do you feel it as unfair as I feel it?It is the same about me and my twin's rules...

Of course it is unfair, but it is also a normal thing for me. Man have more freedom in my family. I like that at least he has the freedom. It wouldn't help me if not.

Of course I often want to have his possibilities, no curfew, my own money, less tasks in the household and the possibility to delegate them, no physical punishment, but I also have learned that this will not happen.

Now with Daniel almost all of the rules will stay in place after wedding, but it feels completely different for me because now it was my decision to accept them.

Sara2001

A bit similar for me.I would like to have the same freedom,but would not like he lose it and have the same rules than me.

However,it is ever more different in your house than in mine...Way harder for you(and your sister,I guess)than for him.

Logical it will be different feelings with your husband

Sara2001 Now with Daniel almost all of the rules will stay in place after wedding, but it feels completely different for me because now it was my decision to accept them.

i agree with @Vanessa that it is of course a different feeling when you do it voluntarily

but (and please don't be angry with me) i sometimes feel that your upbringing has raised you to the role of a submissive wife, in short i think there is a psychological problem

sun

More logical!

sun I think FancySteel with wires is too flexible to provide full protection.

sun

It seems it is mainly fetish products.You would probably not find an effective and comfortable chastity belt from these ones...

I agree with Vanessa and Tobbe, but truly are nice. It can be useful as swimming belt.

Ines I don't think it's worth spending money to use it just for swimming. One of my cb friends told me;
"when I sit down at the toilet the shield is eating my pussy"!!!

Angelina Yes, it must be! That's because a wire on the front can never be as stable as the metal

sun
Well, it is, maybe, not a suppressing answer of your wife. I mean, wear the current belt, even if a new one can be safer or more comfortable.
I do not know your economical situation, but if you can make the expense, say her that is not about security, but that she deserves a better belt. I think every girl likes to feel herself appreciated.

sun

i think it is the right decision. it seems as if your wife feels comfortable with the current belts. like @Ines already wrote you should tell your wife that you just want her to feel better.

if she is still against it because the costs are too high or she feels it is unnecessary to buy a new belt, you should respect her decision

sun

Good she talked with you about it.However,you should have reacted differently,explaining her it is not to buy a more secure one,but to buy a more comfortable one for her,and assure her you don't mistrust her.She may have appreciated it.

sun Your wife already has a chastity belt that probably fits well on her body. Then it is no problem for you to measure it and order one that is much better and made for permanent use.
You will surprise her with the new chastity belt when it comes to your home. Still the same situation for her, but with a much better chastity belt.

sun

what does your wife think about you buying a new belt now?

if she understands your reasons better now, i think you two have talked about it again