sun
I do not understand you.
Why would I need something like that?
Saintprudence I think we call them “handcuffs”
If he is talking about this, it is absolutely out of matter.
Story of me and my wife
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Ines Why would I need something like that?
It's just a joke. 
Ines If he is talking about this, it is absolutely out of matter.
Saintprudence I think we call them “handcuffs” and that’s a very different matter than chastity’
I don't mean handcuff,for it's not invisible as thighband.It may not exist.
Ines The weakness, of your case, in my opinion, is the lack of communication.
I agree.It seems it is something they have to improve a lot(and in general,not only about chastity belt).
I think you do pretty well with her,in the current situation,she doesn't told you much about her feelings,and I think it is hard for both of you to know what to do.
It would be better this way,yes.
Sara2001 My brother can masturbate whenever he wants as well as he can have sex when he wants.
Do you feel it as unfair as I feel it?It is the same about me and my twin's rules...
A chastity bra is very hard emotionally.Don't do it before you're able to discuss freely with her,and that she wants to wear it.
sun she hates chastity belt the worst
Do you meant chastity bra?
Vanessa Do you feel it as unfair as I feel it?It is the same about me and my twin's rules...
Of course it is unfair, but it is also a normal thing for me. Man have more freedom in my family. I like that at least he has the freedom. It wouldn't help me if not.
Of course I often want to have his possibilities, no curfew, my own money, less tasks in the household and the possibility to delegate them, no physical punishment, but I also have learned that this will not happen.
Now with Daniel almost all of the rules will stay in place after wedding, but it feels completely different for me because now it was my decision to accept them.
A bit similar for me.I would like to have the same freedom,but would not like he lose it and have the same rules than me.
However,it is ever more different in your house than in mine...Way harder for you(and your sister,I guess)than for him.
Logical it will be different feelings with your husband
Sara2001 Now with Daniel almost all of the rules will stay in place after wedding, but it feels completely different for me because now it was my decision to accept them.
i agree with @Vanessa that it is of course a different feeling when you do it voluntarily
but (and please don't be angry with me) i sometimes feel that your upbringing has raised you to the role of a submissive wife, in short i think there is a psychological problem
Summer is comming.I think I should buy a better chastity belt for my wife,though I haven't known whether she would like it.I just want to make her feel better.I prefer Fancysteel,for it looks simple and light.I will make thirty measurements in the next ten days.Then I will buy it through a middleman.
I agree with Vanessa and Tobbe, but truly are nice. It can be useful as swimming belt.
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@Tobbe @Angelina @Ines @Vanessa
Thank you for your advise.
When I make the measurement yesterday,my wife told me we shouldn't waste too much money on this thing,the old one is secure enough.
This is the first time she has told me her thought about chastity belt on her own initiative.She misunderstood my intention.She may think I don't trust her as before.I have to stop my plan to buy a new chastity belt.
sun
Well, it is, maybe, not a suppressing answer of your wife. I mean, wear the current belt, even if a new one can be safer or more comfortable.
I do not know your economical situation, but if you can make the expense, say her that is not about security, but that she deserves a better belt. I think every girl likes to feel herself appreciated.
i think it is the right decision. it seems as if your wife feels comfortable with the current belts. like @Ines already wrote you should tell your wife that you just want her to feel better.
if she is still against it because the costs are too high or she feels it is unnecessary to buy a new belt, you should respect her decision