sun But another voice in my mind told me that may hurt her heart and body.

I would focus on loving your wife and doing other things with her so you enjoy your wife both ways.
I think you should be able to tell by looking at how the belt fits if it is comfortable on her or if it is a " dead weight of metal"

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      Megan
      We also shared many hobbies,such as cooking,growing flower,tea and so on.
      As I know there are no comfortable chastity belts.But she has used this style for several years.

          Angelina
          To prevent the stimulation from yourself,maybe it's useful.To prevent the stimulation from others,a chastity belt and a bra is necessary.
          To prevent women from having sex,a single chastity belt is enough.
          That's what I think.

              sun To prevent women from having sex,a single chastity belt is enough.

              If she agrees to wear a belt for this purpose, don't change anything.

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                sun That's what I think.

                this is true as far as it goes, but more important is what your wife says about it, because the thighbands are not useless for certain purposes, but what purposes would she agree to? which devices are useful should be judged according to what you want to prevent.

                  sun As I know there are no comfortable chastity belts.But she has used this style for several years.

                  I am comfortable all the main women are. It depends on how your body is shaped and she needs to look closely at how it is when she moves or sits different ways.

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                      Megan I am comfortable

                      How tight - like will it really stop you if you tried or can you make room down the front?
                      I like the tightness but it's a time limit

                        My wife becomes nervous and embarrassed when I stare at her naked body,although we have been married for several years.Do you think it's normal?

                          sun
                          Tell her that you like to see her naked and that she is very pretty. There is no reason for her to be nervous. She can be proud that you like to look at her.

                            sun Do you think it's normal?

                            yes and no, it is difficult to judge, because your wife seems to be a very shy and reserved person, but i think it is important in a marriage to be able to be open with each other. just ask her why she feels uncomfortable, maybe you can do something about it

                              2 months later

                              sun my wife does not accept complements on her appearance either.
                              She doesn’t feel she is pretty or sexy.

                              She finally accepted that I believe she is pretty but does not believe it herself

                                2 years later

                                I sent barely posts here in this forum in the last two years.That doesn't mean that I left.In contrast,I often log in.I just haven't desire to talk.Maybe my job make me too tired,or maybe my life is too flate.

                                  sun I sent barely posts here in this forum in the last two years.That don't means that I left.In contrast,I often log in.I just haven't desire to talk.Maybe my job make me too tired,or maybe my life is too flate.

                                  If you like to share your's or your wife's experience from your daily life it will be grate. Other can see how it can work and not see only problems of young girls when they are in a CB.

                                    Although our parents always persuade us to have children, both of us think we don't get ready to have children in terms of economy,emotion and ablity.In other words,we don't know how to raise and educate a child.Their persuading is like a kind of noise,making us frustrated.

                                      As we don't have the plan of pregance,she will have more time to wear her chastity belt in near few years.

                                      In order to fresh our life,we give tasks and promissions to each other.I think it's important to have the same interest or the same goal between us.For example,she trained herself to wear high heels and studied make-up,while she asked me to study dance.Now we often spend about one hour dancing toghter after dinner.

                                      When the epidemic was lifted at last Chinese New Year,I bought her a suit of chastity equipment.That includes a new chastity belt，a pair of thigh band,a pair of chastity bra.
                                      The new belt is Y-style with a detachable secondary shield,she wears it almost every day.Sometimes with the shield,sometimes not.We plays the thigh band and the chastity bra occasionally.We haven't determined how to use the shield,the band and the bra.
                                      She thinks she can cope with everything with no problem if I want.I think they are just toys that we can play with to have some fun,although they look pretty sexy and interesting.

                                        We have reached a consensus that if I determine to add one new piece of accessory around her body,then she can make one wish.

                                          Her first wish will be a gift of mini electric car from me.I promise I will buy one at the end of this year.But I don't know which piece of accessory I can choose.So She may not need to pay her price to get a gift at the end. 🤣

                                          sun

                                          Hi, nice to hear from you. On a personal opinion, having children is very impactful on wearing chastity belt. With my wife I’ve done a lot of discussion (good one, not fights) and chastity belt is very impactful with my 12yo son. Of course I don’t want my son to be familiar with chastity belt or with any other bondage equipment. So I think that it’s a good decision.
                                          Also, we have a very strong Ds relationship, having a son around is very challenging but doable.
                                          Personal opinion

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