aslan_asena But I am also realistic enough to know that some hard times will wait for me. :-(
that's when we'll try to help you 
MySteel with chains, safety?
I guess it is an english expression,but don't know what it means...
Angelina if you do not have a choice, you will have to wait that long
Right,unhappily.
Angelina these are the ideal conditions, if you manage not to touch yourself even if you do not wear the belt
On the other hand,it may be a good idea to get as much pleasure as we want before the belt is locked...
Angelina rare but naturally possible
There is a few of us here for who that works this way...
aslan_asena Not so easy, but Netflix helps.
Yes,it makes you think to something else.But it would be hard for me,anyway.
Angelina in my early days i did voluntary work for the school
It can be helpful too,but less fun than watching Netflix!
BikelockFugitive In general a healthy family is more important to them than their sexual freedom.
Pretty right.And we know it won't last after our wedding,while breaking the relationship with our family could have longer consequences.
Angelina sorry, but i think completely different, for me family is the most important thing besides my relationship and my friends
I tend to agree with you.Family is very important,even if relationship,if there is true love between partners,is more.
It is very frustrating and hard to manage.I don't think we can get used to it,but we can manage it a bit better,after some time.
if you don't accept or take it off before getting married,do you think it would break the relationship with your family?
Angelina I'm afraid at the latest when you are locked 24/7 you will think differently and it will bother you much more
I think so,too...
I agree!
Vanessa On the other hand,it may be a good idea to get as much pleasure as we want before the belt is locked...
I tend to agree with you.
but i think it is one of the differences between those who wear the belt voluntarily and those who wear the belt involuntarily
Vanessa It can be helpful too,but less fun than watching Netflix!
but i always had very good grades for that
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Vanessa if you don't accept or take it off before getting married,do you think it would break the relationship with your family?
Yes, I think it would be a catastrophe for mum. I'll definitely work hard to wear it until marriage.
And I don't think that I'll get rid of my belt after getting married. Mum will surely tell my future Mr. Right about the benefits of keeping his spouse locked ... ;-)
aslan_asena Mum will surely tell my future Mr. Right about the benefits of keeping his spouse locked ... ;-)
do you think this is a good idea? because your smiley face says so at the end
Angelina if you have a secure belt it is not necessary
I have the secure belt.
Angelina this is only necessary if you could cheat the belt
I didn't try what @BikelockFugitive suggested.
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Angelina do you think this is a good idea? because your smiley face says so at the end
I think, it can be annoying. On the other hand, I would prefer to wear my belt for my future husband rather than for my parents. And I also find it somehow romatic, when a guy controls and protects his wife. I prefer confident guys with a strong will to take possession. 
Christine I didn't try what @BikelockFugitive suggested.
if your mother checks the belt thoroughly, she would also find out (if you try)
the question is if you will be happy in this role, but i think you can talk about this better with @Sara2001 than with me
I think a female chastity belt with chain is enough to prevent vagina intercourse. There are no chastity devices can prevent all kinds of intercourse.
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Angelina I tend to agree with you.
but i think it is one of the differences between those who wear the belt voluntarily and those who wear the belt involuntarily
I agree it can affect this choice,yes.
Angelina but i always had very good grades for that
However,you were a good student even without the belt,if I remember correctly,right?
Not sure every man would like it,however.
aslan_asena On the other hand, I would prefer to wear my belt for my future husband rather than for my parents.
It is the case for many of us,we feel it would be less worse if we do it for a boyfriend/girlfriend,than due to parent's decision.
With @Ines,too.Not sure @aslan_asena would like the "domestic discipline" part,more the fact he protects and care for her.
Is it not noticeable?
A cable one with the secondary shield is very limiting.At least,for receiving sex.
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Vanessa Is it not noticeable?
They are more like numbered cable ties. If you are careful it is not noticed
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Therefore, I recommend them with wires.
Vanessa However,you were a good student even without the belt,if I remember correctly,right?
except in foreign languages I was and am good in school
Vanessa With @Ines,too.Not sure @aslan_asena would like the "domestic discipline" part,more the fact he protects and care for her.
right, when it comes to being protected by the belt is @Ines the contact
Vanessa Not sure @aslan_asena would like the "domestic discipline" part,more the fact he protects and care for her.
My belt certainly has a disciplinary effect (control, submission and so on ...). Thanks god, there are no other measures for me. I would really disapprove to be spanked or imprisoned etc.