Angelina doubt
It's not really relevant to have a functioning family in... well germany that is.
The only important thing is the financial support, but the country does that here.

    Angelina if you have a secure belt it is not necessary

    To be honest, pretty much every lock small enough to be used on a chastity belt can be picked if it's a normal "lock and key" design lock. So, if you wan't to be 100% sure, a seal is necessary, at least if the wearer has acquired lockpicking skills.

      BikelockFugitive It's not really relevant to have a functioning family in... well germany that is.

      sorry, but i think completely different, for me family is the most important thing besides my relationship and my friends 🙂

      Lukas To be honest, pretty much every lock small enough to be used on a chastity belt can be picked if it's a normal "lock and key" design lock.

      of course, but it cannot be locked again unnoticed afterwards, at least not if the parents check it thoroughly

        Lukas I mean not reaaaaaaaally... You can also just take a magnifying glass and look for scratch marks on the lock. Those are inevitable. (Pretty much, only very talented individuals manage it to leave none behind).
        So yeah, @HHelen can also save herself the bucks.

        Angelina because it is more important in the long run. even if it is often hard

        I would rather get used to 24/7 than disappointing my family. Fortunately, being locked somehow pleases me. I don't really understand it and it's not logical at all, but I feel energized and fevered in my belt.

          aslan_asena

          it still is, but in the beginning it was much worse

          aslan_asena

          this is actually the best thing that can happen to you, but I'm afraid at the latest when you are locked 24/7 you will think differently and it will bother you much more

            Angelina but I'm afraid at the latest when you are locked 24/7 you will think differently and it will bother you much more

            I know, but I try to ignore it. I think, I can get used to it. Don't know if being proud of mastering 24/7 will help. Maybe a bit. But I am also realistic enough to know that some hard times will wait for me. :-(

              aslan_asena But I am also realistic enough to know that some hard times will wait for me. :-(

              that's when we'll try to help you 🙂

                BikelockFugitive

                I guess it is an english expression,but don't know what it means...

                Angelina if you do not have a choice, you will have to wait that long 🙂

                Right,unhappily.

                Angelina these are the ideal conditions, if you manage not to touch yourself even if you do not wear the belt 😉

                On the other hand,it may be a good idea to get as much pleasure as we want before the belt is locked...

                Angelina rare but naturally possible 😉

                There is a few of us here for who that works this way...

                aslan_asena Not so easy, but Netflix helps.

                Yes,it makes you think to something else.But it would be hard for me,anyway.

                Angelina in my early days i did voluntary work for the school 🤣

                It can be helpful too,but less fun than watching Netflix!😉

                BikelockFugitive In general a healthy family is more important to them than their sexual freedom.

                Pretty right.And we know it won't last after our wedding,while breaking the relationship with our family could have longer consequences.

                Angelina sorry, but i think completely different, for me family is the most important thing besides my relationship and my friends 🙂

                I tend to agree with you.Family is very important,even if relationship,if there is true love between partners,is more.

                aslan_asena

                It is very frustrating and hard to manage.I don't think we can get used to it,but we can manage it a bit better,after some time.

                aslan_asena

                if you don't accept or take it off before getting married,do you think it would break the relationship with your family?

                Angelina I'm afraid at the latest when you are locked 24/7 you will think differently and it will bother you much more

                I think so,too...

                Angelina

                I agree!🙂

                  Vanessa I guess it is an english expression,but don't know what it means...

                  Rocketscience means something complicated

                    Laura

                    Thank you,I understand what he meant.

                    And he was right! 😉

                    Vanessa On the other hand,it may be a good idea to get as much pleasure as we want before the belt is locked...

                    I tend to agree with you.

                    but i think it is one of the differences between those who wear the belt voluntarily and those who wear the belt involuntarily 😉

                    Vanessa It can be helpful too,but less fun than watching Netflix!😉

                    but i always had very good grades for that 😉

                      Vanessa if you don't accept or take it off before getting married,do you think it would break the relationship with your family?

                      Yes, I think it would be a catastrophe for mum. I'll definitely work hard to wear it until marriage.

                      And I don't think that I'll get rid of my belt after getting married. Mum will surely tell my future Mr. Right about the benefits of keeping his spouse locked ... ;-)

                        aslan_asena Mum will surely tell my future Mr. Right about the benefits of keeping his spouse locked ... ;-)

                        do you think this is a good idea? because your smiley face says so at the end

                          Christine

                          then you do not need a security seal, this is only necessary if you could cheat the belt