Angelina

Or it is worn permanently,but the secondary shield is taken off when there is no risk of having sex,like at home,while her boyfriend/girlfriend is not with her.

HHelen I haven't decided about it yet.

You should decide if there would be consequences if you manage to cheat on your belt before you start wearing it(maybe during the training).

        Vanessa Or it is worn permanently,but the secondary shield is taken off when there is no risk of having sex,like at home,while her boyfriend/girlfriend is not with her.

        that's true, but I was more concerned with the result (sex no masturbation yes)

            Angelina Has your belt been delivered yet?

            Today.

            Vanessa You should decide if there would be consequences if you manage to cheat on your belt before you start wearing it

            I don't think it's necessary.

                  Angelina

                  Which is possible if the secondary shield is taken off when alone,too.

                  HHelen Today.

                  Good.Would you start the training soon?

                  HHelen I don't think it's necessary.

                  Do you think the feeling of disappointment or shame you may feel if breaking the agreement by opening would be enough?

                  Angelina

                  Good question.

                            Vanessa Which is possible if the secondary shield is taken off when alone,too.

                            I never doubted it. 🙂

                              HHelen Doing it now.

                              Good,let us know how it goes!

                              Angelina

                              I agree.Maybe her mother,as she knows about her use of chastity belt?

                                    Vanessa I agree.Maybe her mother,as she knows about her use of chastity belt?

                                    I would still think it very fair if her daughter got the key. 😉

                                        HHelen She thinks the same

                                        Does she like to see the belt on you?

                                          HHelen She thinks the same, but not me.

                                          what are your concerns? As long as you have your daughter's keys, she has no leverage.

                                            HHelen She thinks the same, but not me.

                                            If I was your daughter I wouldn't trust you in this either.

                                              HHelen She thinks the same, but not me.

                                              A better way would be for you to use numbered tags, so the decision is always yours when you "need" an opening, but you remain morally accountable as an example to her.

                                                  Rick A better way would be for you to use numbered tags

                                                  But she would ask for the same.

                                                      Well, a numbered tag can be removed, a lock can't. So as she's younger and needs more protection because of that ... that might be an argument you can use.

                                                        Angelina

                                                        But I still think it is better if it is someone else!😉

                                                        HHelen She thinks the same, but not me.

                                                        Not surprising!😉

                                                        Rick

                                                        Only if she gets ashamed/guilty if she takes it off;if she doesn't care much her daughter knows she has taken it off,it would not be effective.

                                                        HHelen

                                                        Would she uses it to remove it often,even knowing it would be noticed?

                                                                  Vanessa But I still think it is better if it is someone else!

                                                                  but then someone else for both keys

                                                                      Max9 Well, a numbered tag can be removed, a lock can't.

                                                                      Yes, that's my main concern. She might break a seal and say "I'm so sorry". So, her belt must be locked.