HHelen She thinks the same, but not me.

A better way would be for you to use numbered tags, so the decision is always yours when you "need" an opening, but you remain morally accountable as an example to her.

    Rick A better way would be for you to use numbered tags

    But she would ask for the same.

      Well, a numbered tag can be removed, a lock can't. So as she's younger and needs more protection because of that ... that might be an argument you can use.

        Angelina

        But I still think it is better if it is someone else!😉

        HHelen She thinks the same, but not me.

        Not surprising!😉

        Rick

        Only if she gets ashamed/guilty if she takes it off;if she doesn't care much her daughter knows she has taken it off,it would not be effective.

        HHelen

        Would she uses it to remove it often,even knowing it would be noticed?

          Vanessa But I still think it is better if it is someone else!

          but then someone else for both keys

            Max9 Well, a numbered tag can be removed, a lock can't.

            Yes, that's my main concern. She might break a seal and say "I'm so sorry". So, her belt must be locked.

              HHelen She might break a seal and say "I'm so sorry". So, her belt must be locked.

              The same is applied to you.

                Christine The same is applied to you.

                There's a point in it.
                But maybe you can both have times for self-pleasure, if you don't want to go such hardcore

                  Angelina

                  Not necessarily.She can keep the key of her daughter's chastity belt,and someone else keep the key to her own chastity belt.

                  HHelen

                  But your belt too,so.

                  Christine

                  I agree.

                  Max9 But maybe you can both have times for self-pleasure, if you don't want to go such hardcore

                  No need for it,they use abstinence belts,not chastity ones.

                    Max9 But maybe you can both have times for self-pleasure

                    What do you mean both? I don't have such option at all.

                    • Max9 replied to this.

                      Vanessa Not necessarily.She can keep the key of her daughter's chastity belt,and someone else keep the key to her own chastity belt.

                      which is a bit unfair (even if it is the most common case here in the forum)

                        Christine What do you mean both? I don't have such option at all.

                        I mean if you want to have orgasms occasionally than you could do it to reduce the urge. If not, then you both need locks and someine who doesn't loose the keys

                          Laura You are probably talking about @HHelen

                          i think we have to separate the colours more clearly, i have mixed up the two already several times 😂

                            HHelen Without the secondary shields

                            Secondary shield is useless when you have a key from it.

                              Angelina

                              Why?Both have it on,without their keys.

                              Angelina

                              It happened once or twice for me too!😉

                              HHelen Right. Without the secondary shields.

                              So,possible to relieve the urges easily!😉

                                Vanessa Why?Both have it on,without their keys.

                                because she has leverage over her daughter, but not vice versa