Vanessa Even if they're engaged,and only want to try once to be sure it is good for both of them,to solve potential problems before their wedding(and to make her not virgin on the wedding night,avoiding any pain or blood during it)?

They should move away and the belt will be out of scope.

      Laura Correct. But that's a rumor only

      Correct me if Im wrong but isn't that like the idea of the older you are the more painful somethings are like removing your tonsils?

      Perhaps its just an old wives tale? 😅

          Valadar Correct me if Im wrong but isn't that like the idea of the older you are the more painful somethings are like removing your tonsils?

          Hymen becomes stronger

              Angelina but now even if there are sexual problems between the two of them, it doesn't mean to me that they shouldn't get married. there are many more things that matter when getting married

              Sure,I think this way to make the wedding night as pleasant as possible.

              Angelina that depends a little bit on if he's a virgin, camryn and i are going to share that "pain"

              Again,it is better if it is done before the wedding night,for the same reason.Having pain would make this wedding night way less good.

              Renita They are about to marry anyway.

              But,many of us should wear it until the wedding is done.

              Laura

              Are you sure?

              HHelen

              It depends,unlock her at the start of the morning,while her boyfriend would come soon after,and let them alone until the end of the afternoon.They would have enough time to do it romantically.Even if it is not the perfect setting for her first time.

              Christine

              It can be hard for them,for several reasons.

              Laura

              I've never heard or read it,personally.

              Angelina Well, you could stage it as a family ritual

              Wrong translation;"incinerate" means "burn",which have not much sense in this context!😉

                                Vanessa Sure,I think this way to make the wedding night as pleasant as possible.

                                I knew that, I just wanted to explain my opinion again 😉

                                Vanessa Again,it is better if it is done before the wedding night,for the same reason.Having pain would make this wedding night way less good.

                                That's true, but shared pain is half pain, right? 😉

                                Vanessa Wrong translation;"incinerate" means "burn",which have not much sense in this context!😉

                                i did not know the word and found 4 different translations in 4 different translation programs, and just chose one 😂

                                        Laura Hymen becomes stronger

                                        I'm lucky I don't have such problem 😃

                                          In deed I did read of a sect once where the wife gets pluged in a big stick at her wedding day in public and when it comes our red (witz the hymen) it's an honor for her because she's virgin - if she wasn't it would be a disgrace for her... well, different cultures habe different habits...

                                          Angelina Well, you could stage it as a family ritual

                                          I still prefer to keep her belted until wedding.

                                          Vanessa unlock her at the start of the morning,while her boyfriend would come soon after,and let them alone until the end of the afternoon.

                                          And ask her to lock herself back after?

                                                HHelen I still prefer to keep her belted until wedding.

                                                like almost all parents here

                                                  Vanessa It can be hard for them,for several reasons.

                                                  Then where are they going to live?

                                                      Angelina That's true, but shared pain is half pain, right? 😉

                                                      If both feel pain,it wouldn't be very helpful...And,even in an heterosexual relationship,or if one of the two wives is not virgin,it could be too painful(even if shared)during(and a bit after)the first time to truly enjoy it...

                                                      Angelina i did not know the word and found 4 different translations in 4 different translation programs, and just chose one 😂

                                                      🤣

                                                      HHelen And ask her to lock herself back after?

                                                      Or lock her back at the end of the afternoon,when you come home.

                                                      Christine

                                                      In their house,after studies and having a job(at least one of them),for example.

                                                                Vanessa In their house,after studies and having a job(at least one of them),for example.

                                                                I meant right after wedding.