Vanessa Sure,I think this way to make the wedding night as pleasant as possible.

I knew that, I just wanted to explain my opinion again 😉

Vanessa Again,it is better if it is done before the wedding night,for the same reason.Having pain would make this wedding night way less good.

That's true, but shared pain is half pain, right? 😉

Vanessa Wrong translation;"incinerate" means "burn",which have not much sense in this context!😉

i did not know the word and found 4 different translations in 4 different translation programs, and just chose one 😂

          Laura Hymen becomes stronger

          I'm lucky I don't have such problem 😃

            In deed I did read of a sect once where the wife gets pluged in a big stick at her wedding day in public and when it comes our red (witz the hymen) it's an honor for her because she's virgin - if she wasn't it would be a disgrace for her... well, different cultures habe different habits...

            Angelina Well, you could stage it as a family ritual

            I still prefer to keep her belted until wedding.

            Vanessa unlock her at the start of the morning,while her boyfriend would come soon after,and let them alone until the end of the afternoon.

            And ask her to lock herself back after?

                  HHelen I still prefer to keep her belted until wedding.

                  like almost all parents here

                    Vanessa It can be hard for them,for several reasons.

                    Then where are they going to live?

                        Angelina That's true, but shared pain is half pain, right? 😉

                        If both feel pain,it wouldn't be very helpful...And,even in an heterosexual relationship,or if one of the two wives is not virgin,it could be too painful(even if shared)during(and a bit after)the first time to truly enjoy it...

                        Angelina i did not know the word and found 4 different translations in 4 different translation programs, and just chose one 😂

                        🤣

                        HHelen And ask her to lock herself back after?

                        Or lock her back at the end of the afternoon,when you come home.

                        Christine

                        In their house,after studies and having a job(at least one of them),for example.

                                  Vanessa In their house,after studies and having a job(at least one of them),for example.

                                  I meant right after wedding.

                                      Vanessa If both feel pain,it wouldn't be very helpful...And,even in an heterosexual relationship,or if one of the two wives is not virgin,it could be too painful(even if shared)during(and a bit after)the first time to truly enjoy it...

                                      that's true, but on the one hand we have no other possibilities (at least according to the current status) on the other hand camryn supports me with everything

                                          Vanessa Or lock her back at the end of the afternoon,when you come home.

                                          And if she is still virgin, schedule another "session" for tomorrow 🙂

                                              Christine

                                              They can marry after they have their own place to live.

                                              Angelina

                                              Right,no choice in your case,but good she would support you(but you would have to support her too is she would be still virgin).

                                              HHelen

                                              If they're alone,without the abstinence belt on her,it would be very unlikely she would be still virgin!😉

                                                      Vanessa (but you would have to support her too is she would be still virgin).

                                                      she is still a virgin and yes i will also support her, this is what i mean by saying that shared pain is half pain 😉

                                                          Vanessa If they're alone,without the abstinence belt on her,it would be very unlikely she would be still virgin!

                                                          Was it so easy for you for the first time?

                                                              Vanessa They can marry after they have their own place to live.

                                                              Therefore they only need to have this place to live together to have her belt off.

                                                                  Angelina that shared pain is half pain 😉

                                                                  Not sure it would apply in this situation...

                                                                  HHelen

                                                                  No,I was stressed and a bit scared,even if I loved my boyfriend...But I think they would be able to overcome it if they're in love and know it would probably be the only opportunity until marriage.Even more if they wanted it since long time,but were prevented due to her belt.

                                                                  Christine

                                                                  Right.It seems @HHelen plan to let her daughter choose if she keep wearing it or not when living alone,or with her boyfriend.

                                                                          Vanessa No,I was stressed and a bit scared,even if I loved my boyfriend

                                                                          So, it might not work initially.

                                                                              Vanessa Not sure it would apply in this situation...

                                                                              definitely yes, because my girlfriend always supports me and I always support her 😃

                                                                                  Vanessa Even more if they wanted it since long time,but were prevented due to her belt.

                                                                                  They should rehearse before 😃

                                                                                      HHelen

                                                                                      It is unlikely it wouldn't work.Especially if they have most of the day alone together.

                                                                                      Angelina

                                                                                      I hope you're right,even if not sure it would ease the pain much...

                                                                                      Renita

                                                                                      It would be hard with the belt on!😉

                                                                                              Vanessa I hope you're right,even if not sure it would ease the pain much...

                                                                                              of course it will be painful, but it can still be a good feeling to finally be intimate with my girlfriend/wife