Using a chastity belt as a means to "test" a relationship
Angelina but now even if there are sexual problems between the two of them, it doesn't mean to me that they shouldn't get married. there are many more things that matter when getting married
Sure,I think this way to make the wedding night as pleasant as possible.
Angelina that depends a little bit on if he's a virgin, camryn and i are going to share that "pain"
Again,it is better if it is done before the wedding night,for the same reason.Having pain would make this wedding night way less good.
Renita They are about to marry anyway.
But,many of us should wear it until the wedding is done.
Are you sure?
It depends,unlock her at the start of the morning,while her boyfriend would come soon after,and let them alone until the end of the afternoon.They would have enough time to do it romantically.Even if it is not the perfect setting for her first time.
It can be hard for them,for several reasons.
I've never heard or read it,personally.
Angelina Well, you could stage it as a family ritual
Wrong translation;"incinerate" means "burn",which have not much sense in this context!
Vanessa Sure,I think this way to make the wedding night as pleasant as possible.
I knew that, I just wanted to explain my opinion again
Vanessa Again,it is better if it is done before the wedding night,for the same reason.Having pain would make this wedding night way less good.
That's true, but shared pain is half pain, right?
Vanessa Wrong translation;"incinerate" means "burn",which have not much sense in this context!
i did not know the word and found 4 different translations in 4 different translation programs, and just chose one 
In deed I did read of a sect once where the wife gets pluged in a big stick at her wedding day in public and when it comes our red (witz the hymen) it's an honor for her because she's virgin - if she wasn't it would be a disgrace for her... well, different cultures habe different habits...
Vanessa It can be hard for them,for several reasons.
Then where are they going to live?
Angelina That's true, but shared pain is half pain, right?
If both feel pain,it wouldn't be very helpful...And,even in an heterosexual relationship,or if one of the two wives is not virgin,it could be too painful(even if shared)during(and a bit after)the first time to truly enjoy it...
Angelina i did not know the word and found 4 different translations in 4 different translation programs, and just chose one
HHelen And ask her to lock herself back after?
Or lock her back at the end of the afternoon,when you come home.
In their house,after studies and having a job(at least one of them),for example.
Vanessa In their house,after studies and having a job(at least one of them),for example.
I meant right after wedding.
Vanessa If both feel pain,it wouldn't be very helpful...And,even in an heterosexual relationship,or if one of the two wives is not virgin,it could be too painful(even if shared)during(and a bit after)the first time to truly enjoy it...
that's true, but on the one hand we have no other possibilities (at least according to the current status) on the other hand camryn supports me with everything
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They can marry after they have their own place to live.
Right,no choice in your case,but good she would support you(but you would have to support her too is she would be still virgin).
If they're alone,without the abstinence belt on her,it would be very unlikely she would be still virgin!
Vanessa They can marry after they have their own place to live.
Therefore they only need to have this place to live together to have her belt off.
Angelina that shared pain is half pain
Not sure it would apply in this situation...
No,I was stressed and a bit scared,even if I loved my boyfriend...But I think they would be able to overcome it if they're in love and know it would probably be the only opportunity until marriage.Even more if they wanted it since long time,but were prevented due to her belt.
Right.It seems @HHelen plan to let her daughter choose if she keep wearing it or not when living alone,or with her boyfriend.