It's okay. Unlocking sometimes is okay. 😀
But it is only for the first weeks, then it will be 24/7.
I was unlocked today, what a relief! just came back into belt now.
I think I have to stay quiet in the belt (no erotic ideas etc), it would be better then.

    Verrouille

    You may be able to tell her to give you the key,or you would destroy the lock.Or don't accept to put it back on.Do you think refusing to keep wearing it can put your relationship in danger?

    If she's the only one enjoying the situation,it is not good,and should not be used.

    But,for your main question,I don't think we can get used to wear a chastity device,especially reluctantly.We can manage it better,but not be used to it.

    Verrouille

    Anyway,it should be opened often enough,to be erect,to not damage the penis.

    Angelina if your girlfriend still refuses, you should give her a choice. unlock your belt or separate (but this should be the last way)

    Right,if it makes him unhappy and she doesn't care,he can doubt she truly love him.

    Verrouille I was unlocked today, what a relief! just came back into belt now.
    I think I have to stay quiet in the belt (no erotic ideas etc), it would be better then.

    Or don't accept to put it back on.

              Vanessa We can manage it better,but not be used to it.

              I've noticed that too, it gets better but not really good

              Vanessa and she doesn't care,he can doubt she truly love him.

              this is exactly what I mean, of course it should only be the last way out, but love must come from both sides

                    Angelina I've noticed that too, it gets better but not really good

                    And after 3 years in it,it is still the case...🙁

                        Verrouille Eventually, you do get used to it, or at least accustomed to it. There’s no easy way or shortcut. That’s why the lock is there. There is no other choice but to endure. Take solace in knowing that you do a very special thing by giving your GF this gift, and it allows you to offer up your sacrifice in a way very few are able to truly manage.

                            Vanessa Not surprising.I'm sorry,but I can't tell you it would become easier...🙁

                            yes, unfortunately i also assume that. the idea that even if we marry at the earliest point in time, i have worn the belt for 4 1/2 years is very difficult to accept 🙁

                                Verrouille Indeed. I consider my orgasms to be the property of my spouse, not myself. I feel you are likely the same. We can take pride in the efforts we make to protect the property of our loved ones.

                                    Verrouille frequently. I am often unlocked when my wife can supervise me or I can be closely chaperoned by one of our few friends who are in on it. The belt is not an end in and of itself; it is a tool for the overall goal of absolutely preventing self-touching. I am occasionally unlocked when my wife wants me in bed. I am never allowed to be alone and unlocked under any circumstances.

                                      Angelina

                                      I don't think I would be married in 1 year and half,so I think it could easily be longer in my case...I hope you would manage to be free of it as soon as possible!

                                          Vanessa

                                          from your parents' point of view, at least the "investment" was profitable 😉

                                          nevertheless I wish that you will be free sooner than me (you still have 3 years time) 🙂

                                              Angelina from your parents' point of view, at least the "investment" was profitable 😉

                                              I think you're right...

                                                  20 days later

                                                  For me, the only way to get used to it is to accept all these sensations and stop fighting them and give up trying to get an orgasm and relief. And also constantly occupy yourself with something - for me it is physical exercise, active sports and study.

                                                    Alex

                                                    well, I also try to deal with other things, but I will never give up 😉