Advices to get used to wear a chastity belt
Verrouille Eventually, you do get used to it, or at least accustomed to it. There’s no easy way or shortcut. That’s why the lock is there. There is no other choice but to endure. Take solace in knowing that you do a very special thing by giving your GF this gift, and it allows you to offer up your sacrifice in a way very few are able to truly manage.
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Saintprudence
Thank you for solace. Certainly it's all mindset.
Sure we can be proud to be belted for the people we love.
Verrouille Indeed. I consider my orgasms to be the property of my spouse, not myself. I feel you are likely the same. We can take pride in the efforts we make to protect the property of our loved ones.
Saintprudence
What belt do you wear?
Verrouille My-steel.
How often are you unlocked?
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Verrouille frequently. I am often unlocked when my wife can supervise me or I can be closely chaperoned by one of our few friends who are in on it. The belt is not an end in and of itself; it is a tool for the overall goal of absolutely preventing self-touching. I am occasionally unlocked when my wife wants me in bed. I am never allowed to be alone and unlocked under any circumstances.
For me, the only way to get used to it is to accept all these sensations and stop fighting them and give up trying to get an orgasm and relief. And also constantly occupy yourself with something - for me it is physical exercise, active sports and study.
I don't think it's possible to give up thinking about sexual pleasure. It's a to important part of our nature. I think any wearer will miss sexual pleasure all the time as long as she or he is wearing the belt.
I'm asking myself about visiting this forum: I tend to consider it helps me to read and talk with all you but is it really the case? My mind is constantly occupied by this belt. I hope I will cope with this belt with time.