Alex

well that is actually quite a lot. i think it is best to have a break once a week 🙂

    Angelina Well, once a week is definitely driving me crazy, I get wet dreams about two or three a week, which means I'm overflowing faster than I could be able to relieve. Although in my current position, even once a week is just wonderful, while I go crazy every day, and full masturbation is provided only as a reward. Moreover, very soon I will be forced to have complete abstinence.

      Alex n I will be forced to have complete abstinence.

      abstinence or chastity ?

      • Alex replied to this.

        Once a week sounds like a dream of pleasure for most of us forced wearers. Even after marriage I will not be able to have that many orgasms.

          Sara2001 It only give an explanation of why it is necessary with chastity belts when females can't get anything else done, because they are too busy pleasuring...

            Sara2001 have you been informed of a "schedule" for after marriage? I know you mentioned one of Daniel's family members (bother?) enforces a schedule on his wife.

              Sara2001 Even after marriage I will not be able to have that many orgasms.

              have you talked with daniel about how often it will be?

              Tobbe

              I have to disagree, even if I could masturbate, I would still be able to do all my tasks.

              small example: i also manage all my tasks, although i write a lot here in the forum. if i could use this time for mastubation instead of writing in the forum, i would still manage all my tasks 🙂

                Angelina Well, abstaining from sex and masturbation is chastity. Or not? Maybe I'm wrong

                  Alex

                  yes, if you have to without both, it is chastity (as defined in the forum)

                  Alex

                  Very hard.Any reason to reduce it?

                  Angelina

                  It would be way better than nothing,but not enough for me!😉

                  Angelina I have to disagree, even if I could masturbate, I would still be able to do all my tasks.

                  Me too.

                  As long it is not excessive,it should not be forbidden.

                    dbdb777 have you been informed of a "schedule" for after marriage? I know you mentioned one of Daniel's family members (bother?) enforces a schedule on his wife.

                    His sister is the one with orgasm rules, but it is not like a fixed schedule.

                    Yes, we now have an Idea how often I will be allowed to orgasm. He decides that I will never have one in autumn, one every week in may and beside these two exceptions, one or two per season. Enough to remember what I can not have, but not enough to ever feel completely satisfied. It would be the strictest rule in my family.
                    I think it will be very hard, but I am also not sure if more is necessary.

                      Sara2001 His sister is the one with orgasm rules, but it is not like a fixed schedule.

                      Ah yes, I know it was someone related to him. Do you know what her rules are?

                      Sara2001 Yes, we now have an Idea how often I will be allowed to orgasm. He decides that I will never have one in autumn, one every week in may and beside these two exceptions, one or two per season. Enough to remember what I can not have, but not enough to ever feel completely satisfied. It would be the strictest rule in my family.

                      Intriguing that it’s based on seasons, how did that come about?
                      And how one you get once a week in May? Is that month special for some reason?
                      I’m assuming you had no say in these rules...?

                      Sara2001 I think it will be very hard, but I am also not sure if more is necessary.

                      I’m not totally sure what you mean by this...are you saying that despite it being hard, you don’t think you’ll actually want/need more orgasm than you’re allowed?

                        dbdb777 Ah yes, I know it was someone related to him. Do you know what her rules are?

                        Not exactly. I think it is a few times a month. 2 or 3 times, but this is kind of guessing.

                        dbdb777 Intriguing that it’s based on seasons, how did that come about?

                        It's the kind of interval that fits best.

                        dbdb777 And how one you get once a week in May? Is that month special for some reason?

                        No. He had choosen a month without anything special. He wants me to have this month as a reminder of how it is for others (at least up to a certain point). For autumn it's the same, I will never be allowed to have an orgasm in autumn as a reminder that I am under his control.

                        dbdb777 I’m assuming you had no say in these rules...?

                        We talked a lot about this rule over and over again. At the end he came to the point, that this is the perfect amount for me. But of course we will see if this is true, once we are able to get own experiences.

                        An orgasm should always be something for me that I can't have. He wants me to miss them and I think not beeing allowed to feel them can be very sexy. Sometimes I fear that this is to much, but I am sure that we will adjust to an amount that is okay for me. At the end I accept, that I will not have orgasms on a regular basis.

                        dbdb777 I’m not totally sure what you mean by this...are you saying that despite it being hard, you don’t think you’ll actually want/need more orgasm than you’re allowed?

                        I think especially after the first orgasms, I will miss them even more, this will be hard. I hope that this amount is good for my happiness, but I have to wait and see.

                          Vanessa It would be way better than nothing,but not enough for me!😉

                          what would be enough for me ? for me it would be enough where I personally masturbated about twice a week

                          Sara2001 He decides that I will never have one in autumn, one every week in may

                          makes little sense, i would rather set a certain number in the year and then distribute it evenly over the year 🙂

                          Sara2001 It's the kind of interval that fits best.

                          is this interval determined by the calendar date or by the temperatures ?

                            Angelina makes little sense, i would rather set a certain number in the year and then distribute it evenly over the year

                            That it is not evenly is the idea behind it. So sometimes I miss it more, sometimes I miss it less. Most of the time there is a little hope, that I will maybe allowed to have an orgasm and in autumn I will know, that no matter what happens, I will definitely not have an orgasm. I think this system beings a lot of variety over the year. I will not know in advance when I get the next permission.

                              Angelina s this interval determined by the calendar date or by the temperatures ?

                              December-February is winter, March-May is spring and so on.

                                Sara2001

                                i think i understand the sense behind it. it should increase the tension a little and make you thankful that you will get this present from him. but he wants to surprise you? 🙂

                                Sara2001

                                so every 3 months ? sounds logical

                                  Sara2001 Thanks for the explanation. It sounds like you're going to be well looked after once you are married.