Sara2001 His sister is the one with orgasm rules, but it is not like a fixed schedule.

Ah yes, I know it was someone related to him. Do you know what her rules are?

Sara2001 Yes, we now have an Idea how often I will be allowed to orgasm. He decides that I will never have one in autumn, one every week in may and beside these two exceptions, one or two per season. Enough to remember what I can not have, but not enough to ever feel completely satisfied. It would be the strictest rule in my family.

Intriguing that it’s based on seasons, how did that come about?
And how one you get once a week in May? Is that month special for some reason?
I’m assuming you had no say in these rules...?

Sara2001 I think it will be very hard, but I am also not sure if more is necessary.

I’m not totally sure what you mean by this...are you saying that despite it being hard, you don’t think you’ll actually want/need more orgasm than you’re allowed?

          dbdb777 Ah yes, I know it was someone related to him. Do you know what her rules are?

          Not exactly. I think it is a few times a month. 2 or 3 times, but this is kind of guessing.

          dbdb777 Intriguing that it’s based on seasons, how did that come about?

          It's the kind of interval that fits best.

          dbdb777 And how one you get once a week in May? Is that month special for some reason?

          No. He had choosen a month without anything special. He wants me to have this month as a reminder of how it is for others (at least up to a certain point). For autumn it's the same, I will never be allowed to have an orgasm in autumn as a reminder that I am under his control.

          dbdb777 I’m assuming you had no say in these rules...?

          We talked a lot about this rule over and over again. At the end he came to the point, that this is the perfect amount for me. But of course we will see if this is true, once we are able to get own experiences.

          An orgasm should always be something for me that I can't have. He wants me to miss them and I think not beeing allowed to feel them can be very sexy. Sometimes I fear that this is to much, but I am sure that we will adjust to an amount that is okay for me. At the end I accept, that I will not have orgasms on a regular basis.

          dbdb777 I’m not totally sure what you mean by this...are you saying that despite it being hard, you don’t think you’ll actually want/need more orgasm than you’re allowed?

          I think especially after the first orgasms, I will miss them even more, this will be hard. I hope that this amount is good for my happiness, but I have to wait and see.

                      Vanessa It would be way better than nothing,but not enough for me!😉

                      what would be enough for me ? for me it would be enough where I personally masturbated about twice a week

                      Sara2001 He decides that I will never have one in autumn, one every week in may

                      makes little sense, i would rather set a certain number in the year and then distribute it evenly over the year 🙂

                      Sara2001 It's the kind of interval that fits best.

                      is this interval determined by the calendar date or by the temperatures ?

                              Angelina makes little sense, i would rather set a certain number in the year and then distribute it evenly over the year

                              That it is not evenly is the idea behind it. So sometimes I miss it more, sometimes I miss it less. Most of the time there is a little hope, that I will maybe allowed to have an orgasm and in autumn I will know, that no matter what happens, I will definitely not have an orgasm. I think this system beings a lot of variety over the year. I will not know in advance when I get the next permission.

                                  Angelina s this interval determined by the calendar date or by the temperatures ?

                                  December-February is winter, March-May is spring and so on.

                                      Sara2001

                                      i think i understand the sense behind it. it should increase the tension a little and make you thankful that you will get this present from him. but he wants to surprise you? 🙂

                                      Sara2001

                                      so every 3 months ? sounds logical

                                            Sara2001 Thanks for the explanation. It sounds like you're going to be well looked after once you are married.

                                              Sara2001 More like once in 3 month.

                                              i meant the distance between the periods, that you get orgasms more than once per period (except in autumn) i hope very much

                                              Katies-Mom-Melanie

                                              so it will (for the time being) remain at every 30 days ?

                                                  Sara2001

                                                  Very few and very hard!

                                                  Why no orgasms in Autumn,instead of another season?

                                                  Sara2001 Not exactly. I think it is a few times a month. 2 or 3 times, but this is kind of guessing.

                                                  Still much more than you.

                                                  Sara2001 we will adjust to an amount that is okay for me

                                                  Good you can adapt.

                                                  Sara2001 I think especially after the first orgasms, I will miss them even more, this will be hard.

                                                  I think so,too...

                                                  Angelina what would be enough for me ? for me it would be enough where I personally masturbated about twice a week

                                                  I did it every other day,or every day,so much more than once a week!😉

                                                  Renita

                                                  She may like it more often for her,but not for her daughter,or like less often for her daughter but not for her,so not easy!

                                                                Vanessa Why no orgasms in Autumn,instead of another season?

                                                                I think there is no special reason. Maybe because there are no events like birthdays or holiday or Christmas in autumn.

                                                                Vanessa Still much more than you.

                                                                Yes, we decided that I should always have very strict rules.

                                                                      Vanessa I did it every other day,or every day,so much more than once a week!

                                                                      i think once a week would be something i could accept without being very frustrated. more often would be better of course 😉

                                                                      Vanessa She may like it more often for her,but not for her daughter,or like less often for her daughter but not for her,so not easy!

                                                                      well as i have read, both are often very horny. if both decide to never, it could even be very funny 😂

                                                                            Vanessa She may like it more often for her,but not for her daughter,or like less often for her daughter but not for her,so not easy!

                                                                            This is the drawback of mutual keyholding,

                                                                                Renita

                                                                                it is to be seen rather positive. so nobody misuses his power as a key holder 🙂

                                                                                    Angelina i wouldn't say that @Sara2001 has the same strict rules as women in Afghanistan, we still live in the west world 🙂

                                                                                    I think my situation is completely different. The most important differences is, I entered this lifestyle willingly (at least after wedding) and it is not demanded by the government or society.