So mom says I only get to have a climax every 30 days. It’s killing me. It’s way to long and I can’t deal with it. I’m so frustrated. So how long do you think it should be?

How long should I go between masterbation and climax.

    I vote "never" as it will only make you more frustrated if you have a schedule when you receive climax.
    No masturbation or climax cold you down after some time and you will be more interested in other things.

      Katie So mom says I only get to have a climax every 30 days

      The same rule for her?

        I voted for 30. That’s a lot more than many of us get, but far enough apart to maintain self-discipline. I would give almost anything for 12 guilt-free self-pleasurings a year.

        Laura The same rule for her?

        Yes. Right now it’s the 10th of every month for both of us. But if I misbehave it can be delayed for me. Hers is always every 30 days.

          Whenever she wants, she will get the key.

            sun Whenever she wants, she will get the key.

            You mean mom? I won’t give her the key whenever she wants

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              Renita since you’re a voluntary wearer, how often do you allow yourself? (And forgive me, I forget this answer: who holds your keys and how much are they allowed to control consequences?)

                This is not going how I hoped. I was hoping you would all suggest less time so I could convince my mom we should both get belts off more frequently.

                  Katie I don't think you have not understood the meaning of chastity belt.
                  It is not a toy to take off when you think it will be hard to wear.
                  If I had your keys, there had not be any opening for masturbation! Never!!!

                    The "28 days" is missing 😂

                      Katie To be locked into the belt is to be denied self-pleasure. Being belted helps preserve your virtue; it’s hardly virtue if you allow yourself frequent cheating.

                        Laura The "28 days" is missing 😂

                        What 28 days. What are you talking about? It’s been about 15 since last time

                          Katie That is very true, but I feel like it's cheating yourself. You're investing a lot of time and emotional effort into preserving your chastity, and then allowing yourself freedom frequently enough to undermine the impact. It's kind of like going on a diet but gorging yourself on ice cream once a week. "Cheat days" may feel good but they blunt the intended effect.

                          Katie

                          i voted once a week because i think it's fair. but to be honest everything except the last answer sounds like music in my ears

                          Katie

                          that's what I did, but I don't think that your mother values my opinion more than others 😂

                          Katie

                          it is not cheating but an abstinence belt with strict rules 🙂

                            Laura Do you have a break for your period?

                            No, I got the shot so I only have period like once a year

                            Why when I scroll up does it say 3/19 and does not let me see the original post or poll results?