Time between climax

Katie

Laura The same rule for her?

Yes. Right now it’s the 10th of every month for both of us. But if I misbehave it can be delayed for me. Hers is always every 30 days.

Vanessa

Katie

I voted 1 week.It seems for women(not in chastity belt),it is generally,in average,every other day,so3 days is closer,but as the purpose of your chastity is to prevent it(and you did it a bit excessively),I thought 1 week would make it more bearable for you,while limiting it a bit.

Would your mother use the result to adapt it?If yes,it is very risked,as"never" is high too...

Tobbe

Or not.I'm not allowed to orgasm,and I'm very frustrated due to it...

Katie Yes. Right now it’s the 10th of every month for both of us.

At least it is fair.

Katie

These polls can easily not go as you hope...

Tobbe I don't think you have not understood the meaning of chastity belt.

I think she has understood it,but hope it to be a bit less hard,which is understandable.

Tobbe If I had your keys, there had not be any opening for masturbation! Never!!!

Not surprising,you're very strict about it!

Saintprudence

It depends on the purpose.If the purpose is to be sure she's virgin until marriage,masturbation is not a problem.

Angelina i voted once a week because i think it's fair. but to be honest everything except the last answer sounds like music in my ears

I understand you!

Angelina it is not cheating but an abstinence belt with strict rules 🙂

With an abstinence belt,it is possible to masturbate more often,however.

Abby82

I understand you too.

HHelen

It would be a very good result for her!🙂

Katie

It stays on during it,in my case.

Sara2001 I am just allowed to shower more often but with the belt on.

In my case,I can get more supervised showers,without the belt on.

Renita I'm not allowed.

Do you manage it well?Not too frustrated?

Angelina

I noticed it,too!😉

Renita

But very rarely directly!😉

sun

Whenever she wants, she will get the key.

Katie

sun Whenever she wants, she will get the key.

You mean mom? I won’t give her the key whenever she wants

sun

Katie
She is my wife.

Renita

A chastity belt is not assumed for masturbation break. So, "Never".

Saintprudence

Renita since you’re a voluntary wearer, how often do you allow yourself? (And forgive me, I forget this answer: who holds your keys and how much are they allowed to control consequences?)

Renita

Saintprudence since you’re a voluntary wearer, how often do you allow yourself?

I'm not allowed.

Saintprudence who holds your keys

My mother does.

Katie

This is not going how I hoped. I was hoping you would all suggest less time so I could convince my mom we should both get belts off more frequently.

Tobbe

Katie I don't think you have not understood the meaning of chastity belt.
It is not a toy to take off when you think it will be hard to wear.
If I had your keys, there had not be any opening for masturbation! Never!!!

Saintprudence

Katie To be locked into the belt is to be denied self-pleasure. Being belted helps preserve your virtue; it’s hardly virtue if you allow yourself frequent cheating.

Angelina

Katie

i voted once a week because i think it's fair. but to be honest everything except the last answer sounds like music in my ears

Katie

that's what I did, but I don't think that your mother values my opinion more than others 😂

Katie

it is not cheating but an abstinence belt with strict rules 🙂

Laura

The "28 days" is missing 😂

Katie

Laura The "28 days" is missing 😂

What 28 days. What are you talking about? It’s been about 15 since last time

Katie

Saintprudence it’s not cheating if I was allowed out once per month

Saintprudence

Katie That is very true, but I feel like it's cheating yourself. You're investing a lot of time and emotional effort into preserving your chastity, and then allowing yourself freedom frequently enough to undermine the impact. It's kind of like going on a diet but gorging yourself on ice cream once a week. "Cheat days" may feel good but they blunt the intended effect.

Laura

Katie Do you have a break for your period?

Katie

Laura Do you have a break for your period?

No, I got the shot so I only have period like once a year

Katie

Why when I scroll up does it say 3/19 and does not let me see the original post or poll results?

Laura

Katie Why when I scroll up does it say 3/19 and does not let me see the original post or poll results?

For a smartphone? Let me check

Laura

Laura For a smartphone? Let me check

Works fine from different phones with Chrome browser. Scrolled up and down.

sun She is my wife.

She meant @Katies-Mom-Melanie

HHelen

The belt should prevent sex only, so "always", but there is no such choice.

Katie

Laura works now. It has glitches in other threads to. Probably since I’m using safari

sun

Laura
😅