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mekekelo If you could show where in any of my previous replies I said you couldn't "choose to not have orgasms" that'd be great, because I never said that.
The sentence before this sentence sounds very much like that. This sentence is in any of your posts here.
mekekelo My whole argument here is that no one should be forced into anything they aren't comfortable with.
I never said anything against this. The opposite is the case.
mekekelo but many others aren't, their lives are being controlled and ruined by morally sick parents.
I kind of agree, but as a forced wearer I have to disagree that forced wearing automatically and always means a ruined life. I don't support forced wearing, but here are many people who got used to their situation in a sense that they are not really happy about their situation but wouldn't call it a ruined and extremely controlled life. The world is not black and white.
Sara2001 The sentence before this sentence sounds very much like that. This sentence is in any of your posts here.
Where? I can't really find it, could you copy and paste it?
Sara2001 I never said anything against this. The opposite is the case.
Then what is the issue?
Sara2001 I kind of agree, but as a forced wearer I have to disagree that forced wearing automatically and always means a ruined life. I don't support forced wearing, but here are many people who got used to their situation in a sense that they are not really happy about their situation but wouldn't call it a ruined and extremely controlled life. The world is not black and white.
Forcing someone to wear something so intrusive, against their own will, that limits their life in such a way will always in one way or another reduce the wearers quality of life. It s therefore immoral.
I really wouldn't say that someone getting used to their situation is a good thing to be honest. Many people get used to abusive partners for instance. It isn't their fault either, it is the fault of the person who put them in a bad situation to begin with.
mekekelo being controlled and ruined
i don't quite agree with the word ruined, i have similarly strict rules as sara, but i would never say that my life is ruined. it's only a part of my life where i have limitations, but there are many things in life that make me happy. i know that wasn't directed at me, but i think sara feels similar
Sara2001 but here are many people who got used to their situation in a sense that they are not really happy about their situation but wouldn't call it a ruined
thank you, exactly what I mean 
mekekelo What I said is women should be allowed to orgasm whenever they want, because it is their bodies. It is no one elses concern.
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mekekelo someone denies us our human rights because of their sick idea of morality, it takes away a part of our lives.
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mekekelo I specifically said that women should be allowed to orgasm whenever they want.
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All these posts doesn't sound like you see wearing a chastity belt as a valid choice for a woman.
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Angelina i don't quite agree with the word ruined, i have similarly strict rules as sara, but i would never say that my life is ruined. it's only a part of my life where i have limitations, but there are many things in life that make me happy. i know that wasn't directed at me, but i think sara feels similar
@mekekelo From my understanding when forced wearing of chastity belt is part of upbringing, I think the situation is indeed quite complex and it is difficult for us who have never had this as our upbringing to understand. My understanding is although they hate the chastity belt and the limitations it give, they understand why their parents have done it, in order to make sexual gratification about their future partners not themselves.
Yes it is different from the norm of society which encourages self gratification etc and yes it does appear quite the challenge but the common denominator I have ascertained from the forum is they would never risk hurting their relationship with their parents no matter how much they struggle with their limitations.
When it comes to voluntarily submitting to not having orgasms in a romantic relationship, it is consensual and the person who is submissive actually has a sense of fulfillment at giving up that right for her partner.
Sara2001 but I have the feeling that he doesn't want to see that there is a lot of grey between black and white.
yes it is true, there is a lot between chastity belt yes or no, in between there are many different colours 
hmm..., it seems that there are also male feminists 
Valadar My understanding is although they hate the chastity belt and the limitations it give, they understand why their parents have done it, in order to make sexual gratification about their future partners not themselves.
that's exactly how it is, at least from my side
Valadar they would never risk hurting their relationship with their parents no matter how much they struggle with their limitations.
you are right about that too. it is always a matter of what is more valuable to us
Valadar When it comes to voluntarily submitting to not having orgasms in a romantic relationship, it is consensual
and therefore absolutely ok, even if I would never want it myself I can understand @Sara2001 decision
Sara2001 All these posts doesn't sound like you see wearing a chastity belt as a valid choice for a woman.
But none of those examples mean that. In all of those examples I was explicitly refering to someone being forced to wear it.
I was literally telling you facts. Our bodies are our own, which is a fact. It denies our human rights, which is a fact. Women should be allowed to orgasm whenever they want, which doesn't go conflict with someone who wants to wear a chastity belt.
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And my argument is that it is bad upbringing, it is immoral and misguided upbringing. It is illegal and child abuse.
I'll say it again and again, it is fine that people wear these things voluntarily.
I get that a person forced to wear these things may be afraid to confront their parents. It is not the childs fault, it is the parents fault. The child did not consent, and it is unreasonable to think that the victim should be the one to confront their parents.
Angelina i don't quite agree with the word ruined, i have similarly strict rules as sara, but i would never say that my life is ruined. it's only a part of my life where i have limitations, but there are many things in life that make me happy. i know that wasn't directed at me, but i think sara feels similar
I would say it ruins a part of a persons life, because it robs the person of their teenage years, years that could have been spent on getting to know yourself.
A big part of life is making mistakes, you learn from your mistakes. Even without making mistakes, the equipment denies a person the ability to get to know their own body, their own limitations and so on and so forth.
Even non-sexual things become limited, like swimming, sports, clothing and so on. It limits personal freedom.
Of course, one can still live a fulfilling life, still be happy, very happy even. But those things you lose, you won't ever get back. You live only once, so it is a shame that narrow minded parents take that away.
Not sure her mother would accept to define it now.Maybe more if they have decided it before she started to wear her chastity belt...
Angelina now in summer he also sweats and that girls from a certain age have their period is not new
So you don't have to tell him everytime why you want more supervised showers?
Sara2001 I think I know best what it means to be a forced wearer.
Yes,you would be one of the few members here who had to wear it reluctantly,then wear it consensually!
Sara2001 I don't support forced wearing, but here are many people who got used to their situation in a sense that they are not really happy about their situation but wouldn't call it a ruined and extremely controlled life.
I agree.I don't like to have to wear my chastity belt,but,except it,I'm pretty happy in my life.
Angelina i don't quite agree with the word ruined, i have similarly strict rules as sara, but i would never say that my life is ruined. it's only a part of my life where i have limitations, but there are many things in life that make me happy. i know that wasn't directed at me, but i think sara feels similar
It's mainly how I feel too.
Valadar they would never risk hurting their relationship with their parents no matter how much they struggle with their limitations.
I agree,it seems to be the case for several of us here(including me).
mekekelo I get that a person forced to wear these things may be afraid to confront their parents. It is not the childs fault, it is the parents fault.
Agree.
mekekelo The child did not consent, and it is unreasonable to think that the victim should be the one to confront their parents.
Again agree.
mekekelo I would say it ruins a part of a persons life, because it robs the person of their teenage years, years that could have been spent on getting to know yourself.
A big part of life is making mistakes, you learn from your mistakes. Even without making mistakes, the equipment denies a person the ability to get to know their own body, their own limitations and so on and so forth.
Even non-sexual things become limited, like swimming, sports, clothing and so on. It limits personal freedom.
Here, I do not agree fully.
I mean, wear a belt willingly is a way of being protected, and, in my case, for example I like much more the feeling of protection that bring my belt that the things that I could miss. Even wear the belt make me feel more secure, and make me be a better girl in my own opinion.
In my opinion a girl must not play with herself.
About limitations, I agree, if the regime (not the belt) does not allow the girl make sports, or swimming etc... It is clearly abusive.
And clothes... Well with thigh bands you are more limited, but truly the bands when girl is well trained in their usage, it is not necessary wear them a lot of time.
mekekelo I get that a person forced to wear these things may be afraid to confront their parents.
this is not quite true, i am not afraid of confrontation with my father, but i know exactly what the consequences are and can estimate the long-term consequences of my decision
i admit that i am losing something that's true. but i would lose even more if i stopped wearing the belt. i am giving up something today to live a relatively carefree life later
Vanessa So you don't have to tell him everytime why you want more supervised showers?
sometimes yes sometimes no. at 35 degrees it is obvious