Tim Can I ask why an idea that seems obvious doesn't work?

why it obviously works ? it normally does not work

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    Angelina That's not what I meant.

    If I was in your situation, there is something I would try as soon as I discovered that my fingers wouldn't fit under the belt. I don't remember anyone suggesting it, so I assume it's obvious that it doesn't work but I don't know why.

    If I describe it, would you tell me why it doesn't work?

    Vanessa Thank you. Before I post, I'll read through it again to make sure I didn't forget anything that was already answered.

      Tim I would try as soon

      i don't understand what you would try, i don't understand the context. i can get a finger under my belt with a lot of effort, but what should i try? i can't get the finger at an angle that brings me closer to my clitoris

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        Tim

        I have already tried that, I can stimulate myself a little, but it is not enough for an orgasm and afterwards I am even more frustrated

          Angelina Now we're getting to what makes me curious, because, if the stimulation was too weak, I wouldn't give up. I'd get a non-elastic sweatband made of terrycloth or do some arts and crafts and keep a long narrow scrap of corduroy.

          If that wasn't enough, I'd try adding some decorative patches or hand embroidery to the headband to add more texture.

          I saw catherine98 had trouble with too much friction. Maybe a non-elastic sweatband made of the kind of poplin used in dress shirts (we call it broadcloth here), with a pretty print on it, and then a patch of terrycloth sewed to the inside only where the forehead is. Claim it's to soak up sweat and position it to only add friction where you need it.

          If there's still too much friction, maybe feed another piece of something thin under the parts of the belt where you want less friction, so the cloth can rub against that instead of your skin, or find something like skin cream that you can safely use as lubricant for the parts that don't need the friction and then wash out in the bathroom sink.

          Am I more dedicated to this idea or is there something I don't understand?

            Tim Am I more dedicated to this idea or is there something I don't understand?

            your ideas are good, i don't doubt that, but it's nothing new. i've tried many things, but i can't get in deep enough and the thigh bands make it even more complicated.

            besides that and this is the most important point, i always have to be careful not to get caught doing it, so i usually can't realise complicated plans. that's why i try to get an orgasm in my belt now. it's unlikely but it's better to hide it

              Angelina your ideas are good, i don't doubt that, but it's nothing new. i've tried many things, but i can't get in deep enough

              I agree.I've tried many sort of clothes,sometimes I get stimulated,and it can be pleasant,but I can't reach orgasm this way...So yes,it tends to make me more frustrated,even if there is a pleasant part of still feeling stimulated here.

              Angelina i always have to be careful not to get caught doing it

              Similar for me.

              Angelina I think we're back to what we were saying in Introductions. When I was your age, "cut your losses" and "this is unjust" were unthinkable together.

                Angelina Hmm ... when the belt is that close to your body ... please forgive me my limited knowledge in this subject .... but why doesn't ist actually work to hold a virbator on the belt? I mean - because than the belt would vibrate and ... so ... as the belt is tsuch close to certain paets of the body ... you know ...

                  Tim

                  but this is not always possible because I always have to compare advantages and disadvantages and therefore I cannot try everything

                  Max9

                  because firstly i would get the trouble of my life if my father discovered a virbrator by me and secondly i try exactly such things, but without success until now

                    Angelina because firstly i would get the trouble of my life if my father discovered a virbrator by

                    Maybe he takes it a "little bit" too far

                      Max9

                      well, how would you react if you did everything possible to prevent your daughter from having sexual pleasure and then caught her with a vibrator?

                      Angelina but this is not always possible because I always have to compare advantages and disadvantages and therefore I cannot try everything

                      Believe me, I'm a flat-out coward. But I think my ideas can be tried safely.

                        Tim

                        it's not that I don't try anything, but well it is always a matter of judgement for me

                          Max9

                          I would be in big troubles if my parents discover sex-toys in my room too...

                          Even my twin,which is way more free than me(no chastity except as punishment,allowed to masturbate,allowed to have sex with his girlfriend)is not allowed to have sex-toys.

                          Angelina

                          Similar for me.

                            Vanessa Even my twin,which is way more free than me(no chastity except as punishment,allowed to masturbate,allowed to have sex with his girlfriend)is not allowed to have sex-toys.

                            which is understandable, but the question is whether the main reason is that your parents do not want your brother to have sex toys, or whether they are more afraid that you will "steal" it 😉