17 posts were split from Curfew.

Angelina

Sure!And the wedding night would be even more special,even with pain.

HHelen She shouldn't. That's the goal.

I don't think you can reach this goal.

Tobbe

Right.It would make her even more frustrated.

Angelina

Right too.It is logical she had sexual thoughts when she's with her boyfriend(and chastity tends to increase it).

    Vanessa Sure!And the wedding night would be even more special,even with pain.

    i think it could be a problem though. i know what an orgasm without pain feels like. when my first orgasm is on my wedding night, i think all orgasms could be painful

    Vanessa It is logical she had sexual thoughts when she's with her boyfriend(and chastity tends to increase it).

    right, it must be very frustrating 🙁

      Angelina but it does not prevent her from having sexual thoughts

      In her dreams only.

        Vanessa And I think he's right about it;not knowing the feelings would make easier to be prevented to feel these.

        But this would mean you have to start very, very early. At age 10, 11 or 12. I would never support this. I think this is way to early.

        I think it is just not possible to prevent thinking about what you would be able to do without the belt. No matter how hard parents try to prevent it. I think most of us are kind of horny all the time and I have the feeling that I am much faster really horny then unbelted women.

          HHelen In her dreams only.

          this is what you wish for, but it is not the reality of a young girl 😂

          Sara2001 At age 10, 11 or 12. I would never support this. I think this is way to early.

          well i generally only support it if it is voluntary. but i also have to say one thing, if a girl is mature enough to masturbate, she is also mature enough for a chastity belt (just my opinion)

          Sara2001 and I have the feeling that I am much faster really horny then unbelted women.

          i have the same feeling. but it is also normal that people often think of things they cannot have

            Angelina this is what you wish for, but it is not the reality of a young girl

            At least, I will try.

              Maybe it doesn't matter if chastity is in your mind at some point. When you get weak and masturbate for example.

              HHelen At least, I will try.

              you can try, but i doubt that you will succeed. nobody can prevent sexual thoughts

                Angelina i think it could be a problem though. i know what an orgasm without pain feels like. when my first orgasm is on my wedding night, i think all orgasms could be painful

                Right,it could give a wrong idea about how it feels to orgasm.Even if it would not be the case after getting a few more orgasms without pain.Or if we read a bit about how our body works,and understand the first time is painful,but not the next ones.

                And it is not sure to get an orgasm the first time,the pain could easily prevent it.

                Sara2001 I would never support this. I think this is way to early.

                Right.And I would add that,at any age,it should be willingly,not reluctantly(even if not the case for several of us here).

                Anyway,I often wondered how I would manage it if I haven't knew how it feels to orgasm when I started to have to wear it,and I think knowing what I feel when I masturbate and even more when I have sex(which many of us here don't know),make it harder for me to manage.But is is only some thoughts about my feelings about my chastity(even if I think that it is not very possible to wear it before experiencing an orgasm by masturbating,but way more possible to wear it before we had sex).

                Sara2001 I think most of us are kind of horny all the time and I have the feeling that I am much faster really horny then unbelted women.

                Me too,and it seems common.

                Angelina

                I agree.

                  Vanessa And it is not sure to get an orgasm the first time,the pain could easily prevent it.

                  yes that's why i don't know exactly what to expect. i masturbated and had no pain, but my hymen is still intact, i'm excited and nervous about how it will be afterwards

                    HHelen Thoughts are not the same as ideas.

                    i wanted to write something about it, but @Max9 got it 100% to the point 😉

                    That's the whole point of a belt - it works regardless of what's going on in the head. During puberty, even if you don't know about masturbation, the urge to touch or grind or lay your hand between the legs can be strong sometimes. It's hard to do anything about the urge itself, but you can make it impossible to act on it using a belt

                      shinydiamond77

                      the urge will come whether we know what it is or not, the question should rather be how strong the urge is, this is always different

                      Max9 But ideas come through thinking.

                      These thoughts should end up with dreams, rather than ideas.

                        HHelen Sure, but there is a difference between "should end up" and "do end up" If you shall not do something it doesn't mean that you actually don't do it.

                        HHelen These thoughts should end up with dreams, rather than ideas.

                        and these dreams then lead to ideas, this goal is impossible to achieve