Foxies I am curious to know how long it took other wearers "to get used to it".

2 weeks, that's all the time my father gave me, it was hard but it worked out

Christine . And getting more secure belt instead.

well, whether a waist style belt is safer is exactly what we are discussing. but if you have both belts soon, you will have a direct comparison.

        Christine I'm not sure I understand. A secure chastity belt stops sex and masturbation, it doesn't stop these other things. You go out, etc...

            Jonas You go out, etc...

            unless you wear thigh bands and they are adjust very restrictive, but yes the type of belt does not affect this.

              Foxies I am curious to know how long it took other wearers "to get used to it".

              I'm still not.And I doubt it is possible to be used to it(except,maybe,for willingly wearers).

              Christine

              Sorry for you...

              Angelina well, whether a waist style belt is safer is exactly what we are discussing. but if you have both belts soon, you will have a direct comparison.

              Yes,I hope @Christine would share her experiences about it,and compares both sorts of belt.

              Jonas

              Not easy to start to date someone while wearing a chastity belt...

                        Vanessa Not easy to start to date someone while wearing a chastity belt...

                        Agree, not easy at all, but I don't think that a belt would put a stop to it.

                        Judging by the troll interest in this forum; people in chastity belts might actually be in high demand on the dating scene!! 🤣

                            Vanessa Yes,I hope @Christine would share her experiences about it,and compares both sorts of belt.

                            i hope so too , another user who can compare both belts, after @catherine98

                            Jonas Judging by the troll interest in this forum; people in chastity belts might actually be in high demand on the dating scene!! 🤣

                            I think those who visit the forum have something to do with the topic of chastity, but most of humanity does not. 😂

                                  Angelina I think those who visit the forum have something to do with the topic of chastity, but most of humanity does not.

                                  I like to think quite a few of them could be introduced to the benefits! 🤣

                                      Jonas

                                      maybe, but these people have to find our forum first. i think that 75% of all people don't know anything about chastity belts and at least 95% think it's a toy at most.

                                          Angelina We are born with a set of organs that forever urge and manipulate us to act out sexually. We accept this as normal because that's just the way things are. Except, now there's a thing called a chastity belt! It allows us to become the master of our sex drive. It allows us to give exclusive control to another person. And for some of us it forms a barrier between ourselves and an addiction to orgasm. These are real gains! Who knows whether chastity could become the new normal?! 😀

                                              Jonas Who knows whether chastity could become the new normal?! 😀

                                              i would at least prefer it to corona normality 😂

                                              but seriously speaking, i also ask myself why a sexual drive always has to be bad, it can also be good to have this desire for biological reasons. you always have to keep in mind that we all wouldn't be on this earth if people didn't have and/or want sex anymore.

                                                Jonas Agree, not easy at all, but I don't think that a belt would put a stop to it.

                                                Sure,it makes it harder,but not impossible.

                                                Angelina maybe, but these people have to find our forum first. i think that 75% of all people don't know anything about chastity belts and at least 95% think it's a toy at most.

                                                Probably right.

                                                Jonas

                                                Anyway,it should be willingly only.

                                                        Vanessa Anyway,it should be willingly only.

                                                        Absolutely. The trick is to honour everyone's personal choice. You want sexual freedom, I want sexual security. We can both have what we want. We also can each learn from the other's point of view. Hooray! 😃

                                                            Jonas

                                                            And we can understand each other opinions,but not share these!😉

                                                              Jonas You want sexual freedom, I want sexual security.

                                                              But both can also work, a controlled sexual freedom (it's called marriage 😂 )

                                                                  Angelina Absolutely it can work!! But you know, there comes a point with food, alcohol, drugs, sex, masturbation, gambling and even something like pride, where genuine need become self-gratification, selfishness, and addiction. It's true, most people don't fall into this trap, but having climbed out of addiction both my wife and I appreciate the security of my belt!

                                                                      Jonas there comes a point with food, alcohol, drugs, sex, masturbation, gambling and even something like pride,

                                                                      but just like the points you mentioned, all these things can also be possible for former addicts. of course, it has to happen in a controlled way, but it is not impossible.

                                                                          Angelina From my own life experience I'd always recommend complete abstinence for a recovering or recovered alcoholic, gambler etc.
                                                                          Life is rich and varied. When you've found such a serious and life-threatening weakness within yourself and worked hard to address it, I think it's better to seek pleasure in other things!

                                                                              Jonas

                                                                              of course everyone who has problems with such things has to be careful, but i think under strict control it is possible not to have to do without completely. 🙂

                                                                                  Angelina Wearers often report that chastity belts give them a feeling of protection and care. I feel this very strongly, even though in my case it's mostly protection against myself. Anything less than a complete ban and I wouldn't feel protected, and more than this, I wouldn't feel understood.
                                                                                  Though other people do fine with it, overall, masturbation has not been a positive thing in my life. Chastity, on the other hand, that's just been great and I really do wish I'd worn a chastity belt my whole adult life.
                                                                                  Is chastity for everyone? No. But it should be an option for everyone in my opinion.