Ines A chastity belt is never superfluous for a girl! 😅

unless the girl can also protect herself from the "dangers" without a belt 😉

Ines But she does not want wear a belt at all, at least for the moment, and is a theme that we are not treating usually in home.
It is her decision and only her decision.

ok, i just wanted to know the current status and yes i think it is very good that she can make this decision freely and that there is no "peer pressure" within the family 🙂

      Jonas It is a personal decision, but remember, looking back, I'd say I made the wrong decision at the time.

      I strongly doubt I would think I was "lucky" to had to wear a chastity belt...

      Jonas That's the experience they want to pass on.

      They should only give it as an advice.

      Jonas And, if I could go back in time, I'd be telling myself the same thing.

      But do you think you could convince yourself to wear one willingly?

      Angelina well, unless your partner hasn't had the experience either, then it can get very complicated.

      Sure!

      Angelina i don't know, rather not, unless camryn would have liked it

      Which is unlikely,right?

      Ines But if your question is if I have seen some changes in last times, not about the belt, but it is true that her temperament is much better now.

      Yes,that was my question.

      It can be considered as a more important improvement than accepting more the idea of a chastity belt,but with no change on her temperament,I think.

      Angelina firstly she would then probably accept the belt more or secondly it could also make the belt superfluous.

      I don't think it is so linked with the chastity belt...

      Ines It is her decision and only her decision.

      Right way to think and act.

                        Vanessa But do you think you could convince yourself to wear one willingly?

                        I think I could, as I'd have the benefit of experience. And, thinking about it, I'd feel like I had authority.

                          Vanessa Which is unlikely,right?

                          she knows i don't like the belt. it would only be a last resort to save my marriage in an emergency and only for a limited time.

                          Vanessa I don't think it is so linked with the chastity belt...

                          I don't think so either, but it increases the chances a bit.

                                4 days later

                                Angelina she knows i don't like the belt. it would only be a last resort to save my marriage in an emergency and only for a limited time.

                                Understandable.

                                  5 months later

                                  Kaja So you need have intercouse or masturbate or both.

                                  If you are a man 😂

                                      Kaja Nope. Nobody needs sex or intercourse.

                                        Kaja

                                        i know the saying "except die and poop i don't have to do anything" so it's definitely a want 😃

                                            Angelina You need eat, drink, sleep, you need love/feiends, ... It is call need.
                                            It is part od Maslows pyramid, Doyal and Gough.

                                                Kaja

                                                Right.I checked,and yes,it is in Maslow's pyramid,and at the bottom of it(the most important needs)!

                                                  I get that you can survive without it, but I think there would be a big part of my life missing. Like I would be missing a lot of mental / emotional development and body awareness that comes with self care and intimacy.

                                                    Kaja

                                                    interesting, the maslow pyramid is no longer considered contemporary by many economists 😉

                                                    and nowhere in the maslow pyramid is sex mentioned 😉

                                                    Sin but I think there would be a big part of my life missing

                                                    that's right, something very important is missing, but that's like all beautiful things in life, we want it, but I doubt whether we need it.

                                                          Angelina that's right, something very important is missing, but that's like all beautiful things in life, we want it, but I doubt whether we need it.

                                                          Speak for yourself! 😁
                                                          Different strokes for different folks.

                                                              Sin Speak for yourself! 😁
                                                              Different strokes for different folks.

                                                              well, in that case, of course, you're right. 🤣

                                                                Kaja You need love, but love doesn't equal sex.

                                                                    Max9 You need love, but love doesn't equal sex.

                                                                    Contrary to popular opinion, love doesn't cure all.

                                                                        Sin Contrary to popular opinion, love doesn't cure all.

                                                                        but sex also not

                                                                        Kaja I need both :-D

                                                                        😉

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