Fatherof3 Im able to wear my belt approximateky week, then is better to open it and take a shower. During the week enough to use only syringe to clean me by the holes. But obviously i’m going to shower more often and then i can clean myself even without opening. The waterflow can go inside the belt when i pull my bely. Then i need to dry it by towell put under my armor. When i go to a pool it is also ok. Even better.
I’m sure i can wear it for long time. My wife don’t want me to.. πŸ€”πŸ˜

Max9

Not easy to hide,I think.

Jonas

If it is excessive,I think too,he should try to manage it better.Even before having a girlfriend,he should try to solve it.In such case,wearing a chastity cage can help,but he should accept it willingly.

    Vanessa If it is excessive,I think too,he should try to manage it better.Even before having a girlfriend,he should try to solve it.In such case,wearing a chastity cage can help,but he should accept it willingly.

    Yes, a chastity belt effectively solves the problem of excessive masturbation, and the results are, of course, immediate. It changes the mental process from "How do I stop masturbating?" to "How do I deal with the fact that I cannot masturbate?", or "Why should I masturbate?". This focuses the wearer on addressing the exact reasons they feel an excessive desire...beyond what would be expected from basic sexual needs.

    As I've said many times, yes, consent is required.

      Vanessa Not easy to hide,I think.

      Depending on how far it would stand out. If it's just visibly sepersted from the schiled for the tedticles you won't see it under the clothes

        Jonas

        do you think that someone who has masturbated excessively and then been "cured" of the belt will ever be able to get out of the belt again and masturbate at a "normal" level?

          Angelina do you think that someone who has masturbated excessively and then been "cured" of the belt will ever be able to get out of the belt again and masturbate at a "normal" level?

          I think people could, yeah, and it probably depends on the severity of the problem, but I wouldn't recommend that they did. As we've discussed before I think of it as a rabbit hole like alcohol, nicotine, gambling etc. Once you've discovered a weakness, especially one that can consume so much time, it is probably best to seek life's pleasures elsewhere. It is miserable to attempt to hold an addiction down to a certain level - it's a constant temptation and worry. No, better to slay the daemon and remain abstinent, in my opinion.

            Angelina I think other wise against @Jonas . Though It seems that every time I get a chance to I'll do it.
            When ever I am released and let to orgasm. I'll stay out of the belt until after I shower which is usually a few hours after my partner has left. In which case I'll take it upon my self to, well, self pleasure.
            But then again. It will just depend on how long I am out of the belt. As long as the belt in in the arsonel. There is no normal level of masturbation. 🀣

              Jonas Without some measure to curb the excess, keeping up with a masturbation habit is a full time job.

              It should be her business only.

                HHelen Should she get a belt for him then? Surely we're just pushing the problem further along the line?

                Poor guy's masturbating his life away Helen!! πŸ˜€ Needs a belt to help correct his problem then he can go out and be all alpha!!

                  Jonas

                  i understand what you mean, even if i have a slightly different opinion. i don't think we have to give up anything, we just have to free ourselves from addiction not from pleasure (this is not only related to orgasms now)

                    Angelina I understand that I take a harsh line on this. I guess that's because my own experience has convinced me that sometimes there is no other way... when the problem is at the high end of excessive, long-term and serious.

                      Jonas

                      yes, you have had other experiences and if the complete renunciation is the best solution for you, that is ok, I just want to say that it is not the only solution.

                      Jonas

                      If it is voluntary,I agree with you.If the one masturbating excessively admit it's a problem,and think an help to stop/reduce it would be useful,a chastity cage/belt can be a good idea.

                      Even if,at least at first,one of the main question would be "How can I manage to masturbate while wearing this?'!πŸ˜‰

                      Max9

                      I guess with not tight pants,it can stay discreet,yes.

                      Angelina

                      I think it can be possible,yes,but with care to not resume doing it excessively.

                      Angelina

                      I agree(except for smoking,alcohol and drugs).With enough care to not resume the addictions,it should be adapted after some time.For gambling,for example,if the addiction is solved,it could be possible to go to a casino with only 100€/$ in the pocket,with no other way to get more tokens(credit card,etc...).Even better if someone accompany the gambler and keep any money he can win over 100€/$.This way,the gambler would never be able to gamble for more 100€/$.When he/she has no money left,he/she should leave;even if he/she has gained 100€/$ before,he/she can't use these to continue gambling.

                      Jonas

                      Anyway,you're the only one who know what work best for you!πŸ˜‰

                        Vanessa Jonas

                        If it is voluntary,I agree with you.If the one masturbating excessively admit it's a problem,and think an help to stop/reduce it would be useful,a chastity cage/belt can be a good idea.

                        Yes, absolutely. It really does put a stop to the problem.

                        Vanessa Even if,at least at first,one of the main question would be "How can I manage to masturbate while wearing this?'!

                        Lol. I've found that a belt has to have a certain level of security otherwise I just think "Why am I wearing this uncomfortable trash?!" When it reaches the point where removing it would be a lot of effort, I start to pay attention, stop masturbating and start recovering from my problem.

                        I'm hoping that security seals will take me to the next level, where I totally accept my belt and learn to deal with the feelings of lust that've always (previously) given in to.

                        Vanessa Jonas

                        Anyway,you're the only one who know what work best for you!

                        Yes, cold turkey is how I beat smoking and cold turkey is how I'm beating masturbation.

                          Vanessa I agree(except for smoking,alcohol and drugs).With enough care to not resume the addictions,it should be adapted after some time.For gambling,for example,if the addiction is solved,it could be possible to go to a casino with only 100€/$ in the pocket,with no other way to get more tokens(credit card,etc...).Even better if someone accompany the gambler and keep any money he can win over 100€/$.This way,the gambler would never be able to gamble for more 100€/$.When he/she has no money left,he/she should leave;even if he/she has gained 100€/$ before,he/she can't use these to continue gambling.

                          yes, that's true, although I would also apply the whole thing at least to alcohol and cigarettes as well.

                            Jonas Should she get a belt for him then?

                            No, he should be interested more in sex with her than in masturbation. I thought it's obvious.

                              HHelen I'm afraid I think the availability of internet porn is changing people's behaviour and choices. By the time young people get together expectations can be high, effort can be low, and preferences, extreme. We can no longer count on masturbation being considered inferior to the real thing.

                                Jonas I'm afraid I think the availability of internet porn is changing people's behaviour and choices.

                                in this case, however, education has failed. those who can no longer distinguish between porn and reality need a psychiatrist and not a chastity belt.

                                  Angelina Well, yeah. Thankfully people are starting to see the problem and deal with it before it gets to that stage.