Angelina Of course, I agree with you, although this can alternatively also be clarified by the fact that the rules have already been agreed upon beforehand

I think the more detailed the rules are, the more likely is it to have discussions because they are never perfectly free of interpretation and expectations. Rules have to transport ideas and boundaries, not more.

      4 days later

      Yolanda I get daily cleaning and checks, if its a supervised clean out of the belt then of course it's put back on properly. My mother deals with all of that.

        Sara2001 I think the more detailed the rules are, the more likely is it to have discussions because they are never perfectly free of interpretation and expectations.

        yes and this is exactly the point i see differently, if it would work as you describe it, then the rules are not clear enough and need to be revised, but the system as such works if it is well done

          16 days later

          My lock is checked in daily basis and my GF unlock me 1/week for intense hygiene as well as check the skin status. Only she can touch and clean these parts of my body. She say that eliminination of my masturbation radically improved my behaviour to her (more interest, polite, do household works, etc.)

          Lana corner time or light corporal punishment (or mouth soaping too).

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              Lana

              strange that your parents seem to trust you less when you are with them than when you live alone in the apartment, is there a plausible reason for this?

                  Angelina I think it's not about trusting her less, but about taking the opportunity to do what they believe to be their duty as keyholder. And also, they show ther that they care about her, that way.

                      Max9 but about taking the opportunity to do what they believe to be their duty as keyholder

                      So out of bad conscience because they can't do it when Lana is not at home, they now do it twice as often as necessary when she is at home. ?

                        Max9 spanking takes place after serious rule violation such as not showing respect or esteem outside home or speaking where not spoke to etc. Misbehaviour is serious offence against my GF.

                          Angelina strange that your parents seem to trust you less when you are with them than when you live alone in the apartment

                          They do it because they can 😂

                            Max9 idk, it'd rather prefer a whipping or spanking over that.

                            You're correct. Out of all the punishments I've experienced, mouth soaping is the worst. It's bad enough when I just have to hold a bar of soap between my teeth, but on a few occasions Goody has gotten worked up and really scrubbed out my mouth with soap. (I think she enjoyed those instances WAY too much!) And let me tell you, that stings for a WHILE.

                            Of course, once I took over as head of household, I gave her a literal taste of her own medicine and now we've both agreed not to do it to each other 🙂.

                                This topic is very old but I will reply anyway. Yes, the belt is checked when I bathe in the evening and the belt does not always come off. Sometimes there are random checks in the mornings or when I come home but these checks are smaller (only the lock and skin check of the waist) and the bathing checks are more careful.

                                Saintprudence Max9
                                I agree. Mouth soap is the worst thing ever. But how does this work when the person is not a child? I only remeber it from when I was very young. Do they make you eat the soap yourself? 😆

                                      Dominik89 but very effective, great respect in case of any rules violation. I rather avoid of it.

                                      Max9 idk, it'd rather prefer a whipping or spanking over that.

                                      both sound awful. writing an essay and perhaps a corner time are certainly effective enough. 😉

                                            Dalila I agree. Mouth soap is the worst thing ever. But how does this work when the person is not a child? I only remeber it from when I was very young. Do they make you eat the soap yourself? 😆

                                            Very easy. Chastity contract contains rules as well as punishments. If both sides agree with it, contract will be take into account very seriously and misbehaviour is inadmissible. Corner time with hands behind back and mouth soap allows to deeply thinking about bad manners and how to improve relationship. Clearly stated rules getting me more close to my GF and both we are more satisfied.