Chastity checks

Angelina I don't understand why I can't lock myself and then he checks the locks. it wouldn't do me any good, but it would be less embarrassing

I think it is like in my family or close. No access to the key, means no access to the key. I am not even allowed to touch or look at the key in detail.

Ines I think it is a positive thing, due if we can touch the key, then we have "some power" over the belt, and it can create conflict.
It is very important that the wearer do not have any possibility of act over the belt.

I agree

HHelen Somebody having feelings for her and hoping for more.

is there someone in your daughter's life at the moment ?

Sara2001 No access to the key, means no access to the key.

that's true but since i would just have to close the padlocks, i would not have access to the key anyway.

HHelen does she check if the lower end of your secondary shield is secured properly?

Yes, the secondary shield is mostly checked that it can't be shifted or ripped off.

Ines It is very important that the wearer do not have any possibility of act over the belt.

For me it is that I deliberately want only her to have control of my belt. My gift to my partner and keyholder would be diluted if I could touch the keys. I would hate to use them to unlock myself (or even lock myself) for the reasons Ines gives.

Ines For our good, it is better think in the belt as something about we are absolutely overpowered, that gives us the concept of absolute safety that every girl has of her belt.

I want to be safe from having to think about the belt. When it all started I told her that if she ever gave me the keys, even if I asked for them, I would be heartbroken. She understands this and it is now a near certainty she won't give them to me. I love that.

She does all the locking and unlocking and to be honest, I treasure both moments.

Angelina that's true but since i would just have to close the padlocks, i would not have access to the key anyway.

I am sure it is a control thing, theoretically you could place something under your belt that gave you a good feeling, like these love balls or anything. Of course as all time wearers, we know that this would most probably a very stupid idea, but maybe your father doesn't want to risk anything like mine.

Foxies I want to be safe from having to think about the belt. When it all started I told her that if she ever gave me the keys, even if I asked for them, I would be heartbroken. She understands this and it is now a near certainty she won't give them to me. I love that.

even though i will probably never share this feeling, i find it very romantic the way you write about it.

Sara2001 I am sure it is a control thing,

i think so too, there is no other way to explain. to your other theory: my father could stay with me while i locked the belt, so he could be sure that i don't "smuggle" anything into the belt.

Sara2001 hese love balls

The love balls are meant to be inside you. And if you had in mind the egg vibrator this is really a stupid idea. After your first orgasm you are so sensitive it will be too much and hurt. Bad point it is under your CB and you can't get it out. It will run until the battery is empty.

Sara2001 Ben-Wa balls, eggs and other objects? It's not just about stuffing them in and then believing it will be enjoyable. If you are not used to it, you get cramps like menstrual pain!

Ines I think it is a positive thing, due if we can touch the key, then we have "some power" over the belt, and it can create conflict.

Some power for only a few minutes maximum,to lock it?Not that much...

Ines Do not you think that if we could open the belt, even when keyholder gives us the key, can change the perception about the belt?

Maybe a bit,but only when using the key,not much after it.

Ines For our good, it is better think in the belt as something about we are absolutely overpowered,

It is exactly a feeling I dislike a lot.

HHelen Somebody having feelings for her and hoping for more.

Like her boyfriend?

Angelina is there someone in your daughter's life at the moment ?

Not sure for now,but her mother bought a belt because she had a boyfriend.

Angelina i would just have to close the padlocks, i would not have access to the key anyway.

I agree.

Joh

I thought like you about it.

Joh Bad point it is under your CB and you can't get it out. It will run until the battery is empty.

a never ending orgasm, i don't know if i should see it as torture or if i should find it funny

Vanessa Not sure for now,but her mother bought a belt because she had a boyfriend.

and unfortunately continued to use the belt afterwards

Angelina if i should see it as torture or if i should find it funny

It will be a never ending torture especially you had not one in a long time.

a_father You need one with a remote control.

Wireless could not work because of all the metal. And one with cable your parents would see.

Angelina is there someone in your daughter's life at the moment ?

I think so.

Renita that it can't be shifted or ripped off.

All the girls try to do it.

Vanessa Like her boyfriend?

Or a fan.

Vanessa Not sure for now,but her mother bought a belt because she had a boyfriend.

It didn't matter if she had or not, she would have had him later.

Vanessa It is exactly a feeling I dislike a lot.

It is always the same frontier between willingly users and reluctant users. And I can understand your position, however my statements are always from my point of view.

a_father

but only works if the signal is not disturbed by the belt

Joh Wireless could not work because of all the metal.

That's exactly what I mean too

HHelen I think so.

if it really is the case i hope he can accept the belt and make your daughter happy

Max9

my girlfriend would never give me back the remote control again

Angelina my girlfriend would never give me back the remote control again

This would bring you in embarrassing situation if she turn it on e.g. at your driving lesson.

Joh This would bring you in embarrassing situation if she turn it on e.g. at your driving lesson.

I don't know, she's not there, and I don't know how far the signal goes.

Angelina I don't know, she's not there, and I don't know how far the signal goes.

It depended of the kind of remote control. Some working with mobile transmitter and it can receive the signal nearly everywhere on the world.

Angelina my girlfriend would never give me back the remote control again

So... would you make it her choice?