Foxies By chastity checks, I assume we are really talking about checks of the chastity devices in use?

what else should be meant?

Vanessa Yes.

🙁

This is especially not the case with my girlfriend's belt, she can do it herself, also because I don't want him to see her naked and touch her anywhere without her consent. He understood that and I'm happy about it, but I don't understand why I can't lock myself and then he checks the locks. it wouldn't do me any good, but it would be less embarrassing

        Angelina but I don't understand why I can't lock myself and then he checks the locks

        As for me I can't lock myself because it requires the key.

            Laura As for me I can't lock myself because it requires the key.

            I only need it to unlock it (which will never happen in next time)

                Vanessa And do you check your daughter's belt,too?

                I unlock and lock it back often, but I check it when she is back home because someone else might have tried to "fix this problem".

                    Angelina I only need it to unlock it (which will never happen in next time)

                    It's my case. I lock myself but can't unlock.

                        Renita It's my case. I lock myself but can't unlock.

                        I could theoretically lock myself up, but I'm not allowed to. 🙁

                          Angelina I don't understand why I can't lock myself and then he checks the locks. it wouldn't do me any good, but it would be less embarrassing

                          I agree...

                          Laura

                          They can give you the keys only for the time required to lock it.

                          Angelina I only need it to unlock it

                          Same for me.

                          HHelen

                          Not surprising.

                          Angelina

                          A "white knight" wanting to help her!😉

                          Abby82 I wonder why you arent allowed to lock yourself in?

                          Probably to be even more sure it is done well.

                                        Renita I lock myself but can't unlock.

                                        I think you always lock it properly and don't need to be checked 😂

                                        Vanessa They can give you the keys only for the time required to lock it.

                                        They don't let me hold the key in my hands

                                        Vanessa A "white knight" wanting to help her!

                                        Or a martian troll 😂

                                                Laura They don't let me hold the key in my hands

                                                Same for me.

                                                Vanessa Why?

                                                I think it is a positive thing, due if we can touch the key, then we have "some power" over the belt, and it can create conflict.
                                                It is very important that the wearer do not have any possibility of act over the belt.
                                                Do not you think that if we could open the belt, even when keyholder gives us the key, can change the perception about the belt?
                                                For our good, it is better think in the belt as something about we are absolutely overpowered, that gives us the concept of absolute safety that every girl has of her belt.
                                                I think that it is the background of why keyholder does not let us take the key.

                                                      Abby82

                                                      hart but understandable conditions 🙁 i don't know exactly why i am not allowed to do it myself. my chastity equipment is very important for my father and he prefers to do important things himself.

                                                      Vanessa A "white knight" wanting to help her!😉

                                                      maybe 😂

                                                          Laura I think you always lock it properly and don't need to be checked

                                                          This is more about the second lock 😃

                                                              Ines It is very important that the wearer do not have any possibility of act over the belt.
                                                              Do not you think that if we could open the belt, even when keyholder gives us the key, can change the perception about the belt?

                                                              The similar psychological reason for me. I shouldn't be able to open the belt myself

                                                                Angelina so out of fear of manipulation by an "admirer" ?

                                                                Somebody having feelings for her and hoping for more.

                                                                Renita This is more about the second lock

                                                                Since you also wear a Neosteel belt, does she check if the lower end of your secondary shield is secured properly? Otherwise it's easy to bypass it despite the lock.

                                                                      Angelina I don't understand why I can't lock myself and then he checks the locks. it wouldn't do me any good, but it would be less embarrassing

                                                                      I think it is like in my family or close. No access to the key, means no access to the key. I am not even allowed to touch or look at the key in detail.

                                                                      Ines I think it is a positive thing, due if we can touch the key, then we have "some power" over the belt, and it can create conflict.
                                                                      It is very important that the wearer do not have any possibility of act over the belt.

                                                                      I agree

                                                                            HHelen Somebody having feelings for her and hoping for more.

                                                                            is there someone in your daughter's life at the moment ? 😉

                                                                            Sara2001 No access to the key, means no access to the key.

                                                                            that's true but since i would just have to close the padlocks, i would not have access to the key anyway.

                                                                                  HHelen does she check if the lower end of your secondary shield is secured properly?

                                                                                  Yes, the secondary shield is mostly checked that it can't be shifted or ripped off.

                                                                                      Ines It is very important that the wearer do not have any possibility of act over the belt.

                                                                                      For me it is that I deliberately want only her to have control of my belt. My gift to my partner and keyholder would be diluted if I could touch the keys. I would hate to use them to unlock myself (or even lock myself) for the reasons Ines gives.

                                                                                      Ines For our good, it is better think in the belt as something about we are absolutely overpowered, that gives us the concept of absolute safety that every girl has of her belt.

                                                                                      I want to be safe from having to think about the belt. When it all started I told her that if she ever gave me the keys, even if I asked for them, I would be heartbroken. She understands this and it is now a near certainty she won't give them to me. I love that.

                                                                                      She does all the locking and unlocking and to be honest, I treasure both moments.

                                                                                            Angelina that's true but since i would just have to close the padlocks, i would not have access to the key anyway.

                                                                                            I am sure it is a control thing, theoretically you could place something under your belt that gave you a good feeling, like these love balls or anything. Of course as all time wearers, we know that this would most probably a very stupid idea, but maybe your father doesn't want to risk anything like mine.