Ines It is very important that the wearer do not have any possibility of act over the belt.
For me it is that I deliberately want only her to have control of my belt. My gift to my partner and keyholder would be diluted if I could touch the keys. I would hate to use them to unlock myself (or even lock myself) for the reasons Ines gives.
Ines For our good, it is better think in the belt as something about we are absolutely overpowered, that gives us the concept of absolute safety that every girl has of her belt.
I want to be safe from having to think about the belt. When it all started I told her that if she ever gave me the keys, even if I asked for them, I would be heartbroken. She understands this and it is now a near certainty she won't give them to me. I love that.
She does all the locking and unlocking and to be honest, I treasure both moments.