Angelina I only need it to unlock it (which will never happen in next time)

It's my case. I lock myself but can't unlock.

      Renita It's my case. I lock myself but can't unlock.

      I could theoretically lock myself up, but I'm not allowed to. 🙁

        Angelina I don't understand why I can't lock myself and then he checks the locks. it wouldn't do me any good, but it would be less embarrassing

        I agree...

        Laura

        They can give you the keys only for the time required to lock it.

        Angelina I only need it to unlock it

        Same for me.

        HHelen

        Not surprising.

        Angelina

        A "white knight" wanting to help her!😉

        Abby82 I wonder why you arent allowed to lock yourself in?

        Probably to be even more sure it is done well.

                      Renita I lock myself but can't unlock.

                      I think you always lock it properly and don't need to be checked 😂

                      Vanessa They can give you the keys only for the time required to lock it.

                      They don't let me hold the key in my hands

                      Vanessa A "white knight" wanting to help her!

                      Or a martian troll 😂

                              Laura They don't let me hold the key in my hands

                              Same for me.

                              Vanessa Why?

                              I think it is a positive thing, due if we can touch the key, then we have "some power" over the belt, and it can create conflict.
                              It is very important that the wearer do not have any possibility of act over the belt.
                              Do not you think that if we could open the belt, even when keyholder gives us the key, can change the perception about the belt?
                              For our good, it is better think in the belt as something about we are absolutely overpowered, that gives us the concept of absolute safety that every girl has of her belt.
                              I think that it is the background of why keyholder does not let us take the key.

                                    Abby82

                                    hart but understandable conditions 🙁 i don't know exactly why i am not allowed to do it myself. my chastity equipment is very important for my father and he prefers to do important things himself.

                                    Vanessa A "white knight" wanting to help her!😉

                                    maybe 😂

                                        Laura I think you always lock it properly and don't need to be checked

                                        This is more about the second lock 😃

                                            Ines It is very important that the wearer do not have any possibility of act over the belt.
                                            Do not you think that if we could open the belt, even when keyholder gives us the key, can change the perception about the belt?

                                            The similar psychological reason for me. I shouldn't be able to open the belt myself

                                              Angelina so out of fear of manipulation by an "admirer" ?

                                              Somebody having feelings for her and hoping for more.

                                              Renita This is more about the second lock

                                              Since you also wear a Neosteel belt, does she check if the lower end of your secondary shield is secured properly? Otherwise it's easy to bypass it despite the lock.

                                                    Angelina I don't understand why I can't lock myself and then he checks the locks. it wouldn't do me any good, but it would be less embarrassing

                                                    I think it is like in my family or close. No access to the key, means no access to the key. I am not even allowed to touch or look at the key in detail.

                                                    Ines I think it is a positive thing, due if we can touch the key, then we have "some power" over the belt, and it can create conflict.
                                                    It is very important that the wearer do not have any possibility of act over the belt.

                                                    I agree

                                                          HHelen Somebody having feelings for her and hoping for more.

                                                          is there someone in your daughter's life at the moment ? 😉

                                                          Sara2001 No access to the key, means no access to the key.

                                                          that's true but since i would just have to close the padlocks, i would not have access to the key anyway.

                                                                HHelen does she check if the lower end of your secondary shield is secured properly?

                                                                Yes, the secondary shield is mostly checked that it can't be shifted or ripped off.

                                                                    Ines It is very important that the wearer do not have any possibility of act over the belt.

                                                                    For me it is that I deliberately want only her to have control of my belt. My gift to my partner and keyholder would be diluted if I could touch the keys. I would hate to use them to unlock myself (or even lock myself) for the reasons Ines gives.

                                                                    Ines For our good, it is better think in the belt as something about we are absolutely overpowered, that gives us the concept of absolute safety that every girl has of her belt.

                                                                    I want to be safe from having to think about the belt. When it all started I told her that if she ever gave me the keys, even if I asked for them, I would be heartbroken. She understands this and it is now a near certainty she won't give them to me. I love that.

                                                                    She does all the locking and unlocking and to be honest, I treasure both moments.

                                                                          Angelina that's true but since i would just have to close the padlocks, i would not have access to the key anyway.

                                                                          I am sure it is a control thing, theoretically you could place something under your belt that gave you a good feeling, like these love balls or anything. Of course as all time wearers, we know that this would most probably a very stupid idea, but maybe your father doesn't want to risk anything like mine.

                                                                              Foxies I want to be safe from having to think about the belt. When it all started I told her that if she ever gave me the keys, even if I asked for them, I would be heartbroken. She understands this and it is now a near certainty she won't give them to me. I love that.

                                                                              even though i will probably never share this feeling, i find it very romantic the way you write about it. 🙂

                                                                              Sara2001 I am sure it is a control thing,

                                                                              i think so too, there is no other way to explain. to your other theory: my father could stay with me while i locked the belt, so he could be sure that i don't "smuggle" anything into the belt.

                                                                                  Sara2001 hese love balls

                                                                                  The love balls are meant to be inside you. And if you had in mind the egg vibrator this is really a stupid idea. After your first orgasm you are so sensitive it will be too much and hurt. Bad point it is under your CB and you can't get it out. It will run until the battery is empty.

                                                                                      Sara2001 Ben-Wa balls, eggs and other objects? It's not just about stuffing them in and then believing it will be enjoyable. If you are not used to it, you get cramps like menstrual pain!

                                                                                        Ines I think it is a positive thing, due if we can touch the key, then we have "some power" over the belt, and it can create conflict.

                                                                                        Some power for only a few minutes maximum,to lock it?Not that much...

                                                                                        Ines Do not you think that if we could open the belt, even when keyholder gives us the key, can change the perception about the belt?

                                                                                        Maybe a bit,but only when using the key,not much after it.

                                                                                        Ines For our good, it is better think in the belt as something about we are absolutely overpowered,

                                                                                        It is exactly a feeling I dislike a lot.

                                                                                        HHelen Somebody having feelings for her and hoping for more.

                                                                                        Like her boyfriend?

                                                                                        Angelina is there someone in your daughter's life at the moment ? 😉

                                                                                        Not sure for now,but her mother bought a belt because she had a boyfriend.

                                                                                        Angelina i would just have to close the padlocks, i would not have access to the key anyway.

                                                                                        I agree.

                                                                                        Joh

                                                                                        I thought like you about it.

                                                                                                        Joh Bad point it is under your CB and you can't get it out. It will run until the battery is empty.

                                                                                                        a never ending orgasm, i don't know if i should see it as torture or if i should find it funny 😂

                                                                                                        Vanessa Not sure for now,but her mother bought a belt because she had a boyfriend.

                                                                                                        and unfortunately continued to use the belt afterwards 🙁