Refusing
Chris1 Why did you promise that? This is very harsh
i would disagree, it's a big promise but on the one hand @Jen could avoid the belt and on the other hand she shows that she has understanding for her parents. a win/win situation
well, i think they will keep him in case the situation changes again.
Laura Hang on the wall as a reminder
i thought about doing this after my wedding, would be an interesting wall decoration 
Jen Not having a sex toy is more normal than discussing chastity belts
that's right and you shouldn't argue any more, i think you've won a big victory and shouldn't want too much 
Jen Also they brought up virgin until married again and I agreed again that is what I want too.
Congratulation for you successful negotiation.
Your mother's wish and your conviction are apparently the same regarding virginity. A serious and open conversation would have done the same instead of trying to force a CB on you.
This shows how important open and serious conversations are in a relationship. Whether between parents and children or between partners.
this is exactly the point i don't understand. if the goals are at least very similar, this conversation could have taken place before the belt is bought or before measurements are taken. it would have saved a lot of trouble and money.
Angelina goals are at least very similar
Joh
Yes I wish they just talked more but also I worry what might have been said. Like Mum is not happy with where things are now I'm just lucky Dad is more reasonable. Even masturbating she doesn't agree so the stupid belt idea. But not talked about just they realise they can't stop it and don't agree so just nothing said. As someone said I'll be very careful to not be caught.
HHelen And she is not even supposed to masturbate.
Right,but I guess her parents would be less angry if not using a sex-toy.
Gina All this is just what I believe. if you disagree, that's ok, but please don't slam me.
What was surprising is you were a reluctant wearer at first,and have changed your mind without much changes in your situation...
Jen So Dad said they want me to make a promise. He said it is reasonable and he thinks I can keep it so don't promise unless I really mean it. He said I need to promise to never have a sex toy in their house or use anything in the house in a sexual way. Also he said it is a promise forever, if I leave home and come back it still applies.
So I made the promise. It's better than I thought they were going to say. Also they brought up virgin until married again and I agreed again that is what I want too.
Good news for you
The restrictions they think using if you refused are all cancelled?
Are you sure they would never suggest chastity belt again?That it wasn't used to distract you and plan to ask again when they think they have more chances you agree?
Jen I now know that she is against it but it seems it will be tolerated as long as there are no toys
Good it is tolerated!
Jen Thanks I don't talk about this with anyone so nice to have support here. Also to the others who helped.
It is one of the purpose of the board!
Jen Luckily it is ignored
Definitively?
Not pleasant but not too bad for her.
And,even if I think it is acceptable if she is discreet when using it,I can understand their parents don't want her to use it under their roof.
I agree.
Chris1 Usually every girl is allowed to do that
Not necessarily.I was always forbidden to have sex-toys,too(and still am).
Jen I don't know what they will do it's put away now.
Not left in your room anymore?
Jen Fingers are enough ... for now. It's only until I move out.
Jen I've gotten used to not having it this promise is ok.
I think so,too.
Good advice,yes,it could make the use of a chastity belt discussed again,otherwise...Even if they tolerate it,it can be different if she's caught.
Joh Yes, I disagree because you missed the point.
I know
Vanessa What was surprising is you were a reluctant wearer at first,and have changed your mind without much changes in your situation...
I wouldn't say that @Gina wears the belt voluntarily, I would rather say that she wants to give it to her parents as a present with this.
Joh because they could burst into your room at any time.
@Jen Locking a door maybe
Jen Like Mum is not happy with where things are now I'm just lucky Dad is more reasonable.
Be careful, your mother may not have given up yet. Don't make any mistakes now. Dodge the topic. You have to be consistent. Otherwise she may bring up the belt again. Then you must stop the conversatiin and tell her, everything is dicussed concerning this theme. Never allow this thing to come up again.