Laura Good answer by the way Laura, what happened to the thigh bands that you were going to order, do you use them now or what happened?

      Mario Your parents are going to leave it in a basement or they will sell it or throw it away.

      Laura Hang on the wall as a reminder 😂

      Omg how embarrassing I know you were joking but also you are much more used to them. When looking at it I thought about how my body would fit into it and where it was pressing 😳 not something to put on the wall!!😅
      I don't know what they will do it's put away now.

      Abby82 I wouldn't say anything because the parents can change their minds. Fingers are enough.

      Definately not saying anything if they want to act like the whole belt thing never happened then that's fine by me. Fingers are enough ... for now. It's only until I move out.

      Chris1 A lot of people use dildos, that's normal. you should tell your parents that

      Wow you want me to go on the rollercoaster of arguments again? Not having a sex toy is more normal than discussing chastity belts. I've gotten used to not having it this promise is ok.

                Jen I don't know what they will do it's put away now.

                Do you know if it fits your mom's size?

                • Jen replied to this.

                    Laura chuckles 😂 unlikely, we are different. But that would be funny if he made her wear it. Urgh she's probably too much of a goody to need a belt.

                        Jen Urgh she's probably too much of a goody to need a belt.

                        Your belt was her idea and it would not hurt if she worn one

                          Chris1 Why did you promise that? This is very harsh

                          i would disagree, it's a big promise but on the one hand @Jen could avoid the belt and on the other hand she shows that she has understanding for her parents. a win/win situation

                          Mario

                          well, i think they will keep him in case the situation changes again.

                          Laura Hang on the wall as a reminder 😂

                          i thought about doing this after my wedding, would be an interesting wall decoration 😂

                          Jen Not having a sex toy is more normal than discussing chastity belts

                          that's right and you shouldn't argue any more, i think you've won a big victory and shouldn't want too much 🙂

                                  Jen Luckily it is ignored

                                  But make sure you are not caught.

                                      Gina The idea of the belt is to prevent sex. All sex
                                      All this is just what I believe.

                                      If this what you want do it. This is the only thing what counts.

                                        Jen Also they brought up virgin until married again and I agreed again that is what I want too.

                                        Congratulation for you successful negotiation.
                                        Your mother's wish and your conviction are apparently the same regarding virginity. A serious and open conversation would have done the same instead of trying to force a CB on you.
                                        This shows how important open and serious conversations are in a relationship. Whether between parents and children or between partners.

                                            Jen chuckles 😂 unlikely, we are different.

                                            Maybe they can exchange it for one which would fit for a little extra money 😂

                                              Joh Your mother's wish and your conviction are apparently the same regarding virginity.

                                              Joh A serious and open conversation would have done the same instead of trying to force a CB on you.

                                              @Jen

                                              this is exactly the point i don't understand. if the goals are at least very similar, this conversation could have taken place before the belt is bought or before measurements are taken. it would have saved a lot of trouble and money.

                                                    HHelen @Jen did with her toy. And she has learned to not do it again.

                                                    Sorry, if you still blame @Jen than you make the same mistake as her parents.
                                                    They didn't talk with @Jen about her expectation nor masturbating nor sex tools nor how they started her relation and what they belief it is important. Because @Jen did not know, she did not make a mistake.

                                                    • Jen replied to this.

                                                        Angelina it really only depends on your personal attitude to the overall situation 😉 (and yes I know you will disagree with me)

                                                        Yes, I disagree because you missed the point.

                                                            Angelina goals are at least very similar

                                                            Joh
                                                            Yes I wish they just talked more but also I worry what might have been said. Like Mum is not happy with where things are now I'm just lucky Dad is more reasonable. Even masturbating she doesn't agree so the stupid belt idea. But not talked about just they realise they can't stop it and don't agree so just nothing said. As someone said I'll be very careful to not be caught.

                                                                  HHelen And she is not even supposed to masturbate.

                                                                  Right,but I guess her parents would be less angry if not using a sex-toy.

                                                                  Gina All this is just what I believe. if you disagree, that's ok, but please don't slam me.

                                                                  What was surprising is you were a reluctant wearer at first,and have changed your mind without much changes in your situation...

                                                                  Jen So Dad said they want me to make a promise. He said it is reasonable and he thinks I can keep it so don't promise unless I really mean it. He said I need to promise to never have a sex toy in their house or use anything in the house in a sexual way. Also he said it is a promise forever, if I leave home and come back it still applies.
                                                                  So I made the promise. It's better than I thought they were going to say. Also they brought up virgin until married again and I agreed again that is what I want too.

                                                                  Good news for you🙂

                                                                  The restrictions they think using if you refused are all cancelled?

                                                                  Are you sure they would never suggest chastity belt again?That it wasn't used to distract you and plan to ask again when they think they have more chances you agree?

                                                                  Jen I now know that she is against it but it seems it will be tolerated as long as there are no toys

                                                                  Good it is tolerated!

                                                                  Jen Thanks I don't talk about this with anyone so nice to have support here. Also to the others who helped.

                                                                  It is one of the purpose of the board!😉

                                                                  Jen Luckily it is ignored🥳

                                                                  Definitively?

                                                                  Chris1

                                                                  Not pleasant but not too bad for her.

                                                                  And,even if I think it is acceptable if she is discreet when using it,I can understand their parents don't want her to use it under their roof.

                                                                  Abby82

                                                                  I agree.

                                                                  Chris1 Usually every girl is allowed to do that

                                                                  Not necessarily.I was always forbidden to have sex-toys,too(and still am).

                                                                  Laura

                                                                  🤣

                                                                  Jen I don't know what they will do it's put away now.

                                                                  Not left in your room anymore?

                                                                  Jen Fingers are enough ... for now. It's only until I move out.

                                                                  😉

                                                                  Jen I've gotten used to not having it this promise is ok.

                                                                  I think so,too.

                                                                  HHelen

                                                                  Good advice,yes,it could make the use of a chastity belt discussed again,otherwise...Even if they tolerate it,it can be different if she's caught.

                                                                                                Jen As someone said I'll be very careful to not be caught.

                                                                                                Also point out you have a right of privacy. It can not be that you will live in fear because they could burst into your room at any time.

                                                                                                    Joh Yes, I disagree because you missed the point.

                                                                                                    I know 😉

                                                                                                    Vanessa What was surprising is you were a reluctant wearer at first,and have changed your mind without much changes in your situation...

                                                                                                    I wouldn't say that @Gina wears the belt voluntarily, I would rather say that she wants to give it to her parents as a present with this.

                                                                                                    Joh because they could burst into your room at any time.

                                                                                                    @Jen Locking a door maybe 😉