Angelina goals are at least very similar

Joh
Yes I wish they just talked more but also I worry what might have been said. Like Mum is not happy with where things are now I'm just lucky Dad is more reasonable. Even masturbating she doesn't agree so the stupid belt idea. But not talked about just they realise they can't stop it and don't agree so just nothing said. As someone said I'll be very careful to not be caught.

    HHelen And she is not even supposed to masturbate.

    Right,but I guess her parents would be less angry if not using a sex-toy.

    Gina All this is just what I believe. if you disagree, that's ok, but please don't slam me.

    What was surprising is you were a reluctant wearer at first,and have changed your mind without much changes in your situation...

    Jen So Dad said they want me to make a promise. He said it is reasonable and he thinks I can keep it so don't promise unless I really mean it. He said I need to promise to never have a sex toy in their house or use anything in the house in a sexual way. Also he said it is a promise forever, if I leave home and come back it still applies.
    So I made the promise. It's better than I thought they were going to say. Also they brought up virgin until married again and I agreed again that is what I want too.

    Good news for youπŸ™‚

    The restrictions they think using if you refused are all cancelled?

    Are you sure they would never suggest chastity belt again?That it wasn't used to distract you and plan to ask again when they think they have more chances you agree?

    Jen I now know that she is against it but it seems it will be tolerated as long as there are no toys

    Good it is tolerated!

    Jen Thanks I don't talk about this with anyone so nice to have support here. Also to the others who helped.

    It is one of the purpose of the board!πŸ˜‰

    Jen Luckily it is ignoredπŸ₯³

    Definitively?

    Chris1

    Not pleasant but not too bad for her.

    And,even if I think it is acceptable if she is discreet when using it,I can understand their parents don't want her to use it under their roof.

    Abby82

    I agree.

    Chris1 Usually every girl is allowed to do that

    Not necessarily.I was always forbidden to have sex-toys,too(and still am).

    Laura

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    Jen I don't know what they will do it's put away now.

    Not left in your room anymore?

    Jen Fingers are enough ... for now. It's only until I move out.

    πŸ˜‰

    Jen I've gotten used to not having it this promise is ok.

    I think so,too.

    HHelen

    Good advice,yes,it could make the use of a chastity belt discussed again,otherwise...Even if they tolerate it,it can be different if she's caught.

      Jen As someone said I'll be very careful to not be caught.

      Also point out you have a right of privacy. It can not be that you will live in fear because they could burst into your room at any time.

        Joh Yes, I disagree because you missed the point.

        I know πŸ˜‰

        Vanessa What was surprising is you were a reluctant wearer at first,and have changed your mind without much changes in your situation...

        I wouldn't say that @Gina wears the belt voluntarily, I would rather say that she wants to give it to her parents as a present with this.

        Joh because they could burst into your room at any time.

        @Jen Locking a door maybe πŸ˜‰

          Jen Like Mum is not happy with where things are now I'm just lucky Dad is more reasonable.

          Be careful, your mother may not have given up yet. Don't make any mistakes now. Dodge the topic. You have to be consistent. Otherwise she may bring up the belt again. Then you must stop the conversatiin and tell her, everything is dicussed concerning this theme. Never allow this thing to come up again.

          Jen Your decision. I just meant you don't even have to promise this. Normal parents shouldn't keep their children from owning a sex toy. It's none of their business.

          Joh

          Right,but don't you think they would suspect why she wants such privacy,if she discuss it now?

          Angelina I would rather say that she wants to give it to her parents as a present with this.

          Possible.

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            Vanessa Right,but don't you think they would suspect why she wants such privacy,if she discuss it now?

            This is possible. In order not to let this thought arise I would not masturbate if I explicitly said so. But do other things for which I want to be for me. They should get used to the fact that she perceives it.

              Joh But do other things for which I want to be for me.

              i agree, but i think this discussion could easily be solved. there must be 1000 reasons why a young girl would want to have privacy outside of masturbation. however, this could have negative consequences. the parents could say you get privacy when you wear the belt.

                @Angelina

                @Joh

                It's funny reading your debate. Mum would surely be suspicious of I asked for more privacy no way I'm doing that. But it isn't so bad anyway they don't just barge into my room or anything. Anyway it's easier to wait until very late at night or when they're out of the house.

                  Jen Anyway it's easier to wait until very late at night or when they're out of the house.

                  The discussion is because we don't know how your family relation is. We can think about what could happen in some circumstances and what could help you.
                  That sounds good. Be careful and have fun 😁

                  Jen Anyway it's easier to wait until very late at night or when they're out of the house.

                  yes, that's true, although we don't know what the risks are in which situations (for you). i think i can agree with you and @Joh. πŸ˜‰

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                    Angelina there must be 1000 reasons why a young girl would want to have privacy outside of masturbation.

                    She may care to not masturbate when not alone and let them "caught" her when doing other things,which are not forbidden(nor only tolerated).If they sometime are nosy and never caught her masturbating,they may think she doesn't use her privacy for it.

                    Angelina however, this could have negative consequences. the parents could say you get privacy when you wear the belt.

                    Right...

                    Jen Anyway it's easier to wait until very late at night or when they're out of the house.

                    Wise decision.Opening your door without knocking or such can easily happen,now...

                    Joh

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                      Joh Yea, we should celebrate that we agree to each other 😁

                      it doesn't happen often, but when someone says something sensible i of course agree πŸ˜‚

                      Vanessa She may care to not masturbate when not alone and let them "caught" her when doing other things,which are not forbidden(nor only tolerated).If they sometime are nosy and never caught her masturbating,they may think she doesn't use her privacy for it.

                      that can be, difficult situation. i would say that a key to lock the door can help, but i don't think the parents will accept that. πŸ˜‚ πŸ™

                        Angelina but when someone says something sensible i of course agree

                        From my point of view, I say only sensible things almost all the time. πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜‚

                          Joh From my point of view, I say only sensible things almost all the time. πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜‚

                          Well, it would be bad if we ourselves didn't believe what we write. πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜‚

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                          Angelina i would say that a key to lock the door can help, but i don't think the parents will accept that. πŸ˜‚ πŸ™

                          I doubt it,too...πŸ™