Refusing

Vanessa Right,but don't you think they would suspect why she wants such privacy,if she discuss it now?

This is possible. In order not to let this thought arise I would not masturbate if I explicitly said so. But do other things for which I want to be for me. They should get used to the fact that she perceives it.

Joh But do other things for which I want to be for me.

i agree, but i think this discussion could easily be solved. there must be 1000 reasons why a young girl would want to have privacy outside of masturbation. however, this could have negative consequences. the parents could say you get privacy when you wear the belt.

Jen Anyway it's easier to wait until very late at night or when they're out of the house.

The discussion is because we don't know how your family relation is. We can think about what could happen in some circumstances and what could help you.
That sounds good. Be careful and have fun

Jen Anyway it's easier to wait until very late at night or when they're out of the house.

yes, that's true, although we don't know what the risks are in which situations (for you). i think i can agree with you and @Joh.

Angelina you and @Joh.

Yea, we should celebrate that we agree to each other

Angelina there must be 1000 reasons why a young girl would want to have privacy outside of masturbation.

She may care to not masturbate when not alone and let them "caught" her when doing other things,which are not forbidden(nor only tolerated).If they sometime are nosy and never caught her masturbating,they may think she doesn't use her privacy for it.

Angelina however, this could have negative consequences. the parents could say you get privacy when you wear the belt.

Right...

Jen Anyway it's easier to wait until very late at night or when they're out of the house.

Wise decision.Opening your door without knocking or such can easily happen,now...

Joh

Joh Yea, we should celebrate that we agree to each other

it doesn't happen often, but when someone says something sensible i of course agree

Vanessa She may care to not masturbate when not alone and let them "caught" her when doing other things,which are not forbidden(nor only tolerated).If they sometime are nosy and never caught her masturbating,they may think she doesn't use her privacy for it.

that can be, difficult situation. i would say that a key to lock the door can help, but i don't think the parents will accept that.

Angelina but when someone says something sensible i of course agree

From my point of view, I say only sensible things almost all the time.

Joh From my point of view, I say only sensible things almost all the time.

Well, it would be bad if we ourselves didn't believe what we write.

Vanessa I doubt it,too...

especially because it is difficult to exclude the parents from one area of one's own flat/house.

Angelina

Exactly what my parents think too.When I complain they don't knock on my door before entering,they often tell me they haven't to knock on the door of their own house...Nothing to answer to it,as it is logical...

Vanessa

that's true, although my father usually knocks, but purely out of politeness. of course i don't have a claim to it because it's still my father's house.

Jen

your mother seems to be a bit more suspicious than your father, right?

Jen or just doesn't think privacy is important

I see it differently (and you probably do too), but as long as you live with your parents, the only thing that helps is talking.

Angelina

Does he wait you tell him to enter before?

Jen

Maybe both.

Vanessa Does he wait you tell him to enter before?

most of the time yes, unless he has a lot of stress, then unfortunately he doesn't wait. that was also the reason why he caught me masturbating at that time.