Jen
I think it is pretty obvious, and even without the time, even more.
In general life is easier, and as wearer, I can say that a situation of forced chastity will destroy a family.
Look you situation, can they force you? No.
Did they try to buy your acceptance? Yes
Did you sell it? No.
Can they do something? No.
And you are not the exception, it is the normal.
However, if I was your parents I would be mad with you for do not refuse prior to the purchase.
Refusing
Ines Hmm I see what your saying. If it was reasonably decided and then rejected it is a waste of money. But it was not like that, it was ordered before I agreed. They have not mentioned the money.
Joh Happiness is a mind set. I believe some are in the situation and worked a way out that it doesn't crush them. They tray to see the nice things in her live.
I remember a line written somewhere, I don't know which thread: "At least I'll be able to do some sports again". There is no happiness there. But with everything described surely it is not all real.
Jen But it was not like that, it was ordered before I agreed. They have not mentioned the money.
Truly, your parents did not do anything rightly in this process.
Wear a chastity belt is a two sides action.
It is not only they bought a full chastity belt with its thigh bands without discussing the usage, but they bought before your acceptance...
However, when they measured you, you were not in an agreement?
Ines thigh bands
There is no bands, Dad confirmed there was nothing else. But there is the rings for attaching them.
Ines However, when they measured you, you were not in an agreement?
More not believing than disagreeing or agreeing. The measuring was very surprising and kept getting worse. I was actually very rude to Mum what I said when measuring between legs then I felt bad and went along with the rest of it. The measuring made me take it more seriously and I searched for more info.
It's got the little rings on the side like wtf that's not standard is it? On the website it looks like that's extra.
Don't fucking do it, I've seen that movie before. If you put that thing on you will have thighbands on in notime.
You stood your ground, now keep standing it you literally have all leverage.
In general I wouldn't even consider wearing the thing, the fact that they installed D rings without your knowledge shows me that your parents aren't necessarily playing with open cards either.
I agree with Daddy,if you let them put a belt on you once it will be forever.
BikelockFugitive Don't fucking do it, I've seen that movie before. If you put that thing on you will have thighbands on in notime.
Obviously. If they are not stock option, they are put with some intention.
I think that if it is true, it is cheaters' match.
well, you seem to have come to terms with the belt just fine, but that's not the case for most girls here.
Jen There is no happiness there. But with everything described surely it is not all real.
if you believe us or not i don't care for now, if you don't believe me i don't blame you, but i disagree that there is no happiness here, many girls are unhappy with the belt, but not unhappy in life as a whole 
i am glad that you are going your own way and not wearing the belt, in my opinion it is the right decision. there was too little open communication, everything was done wrong on the part of your parents in this point.
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Jen The measuring was very surprising and kept getting worse. I was actually very rude to Mum what I said when measuring between legs then I felt bad and went along with the rest of it.
So you Mom had found your toy and becomed upset. Because you could buy a new one at any time they decided to prevent it and measured there. Why didn't you ask what was it for if you didn't guess yourself?
Ines I think that if it is true, it is cheaters' match.
Also the secondary shield. It's not needed to prevent using her toy.
Angelina It's not that I like it. I don't. But you're right, I have come to terms with the belt and I have come to understand that my parents have me wear it because they love me and want the right things for me.
I thought that maybe that's how it is for Jen. I'm not saying I'm sure, but just maybe her parents are like mine and want only the best for her.
James True. But you may need to be for a long while.
Which can be hard...
Joh The risk is the key is not the key of the lock.
It is not hard to check it;and yes,it she should check it before.
Joh If the find out you tried the belt bay asking you and they will know if you lie or not than you did the first step on the road to wear it 24/7.
If the key is not the right one,she would not put the belt on her,if it is the right one,she can try secretly and tell her parents she had not.Checking is the key(
).
At least,they told you they understand you(even if they probably don't understand it is an important subject for you).
Ines Anyway, if you think the right is wear the belt, wear it, if you think it is not the right choice, do not wear it.
Clear and right.
Angelina i can understand that you are curious, but believe me, after a while the frustration is bigger than the curiosity. the curiosity becomes everyday life and unfortunately the frustration as well.
It is the reason she can try it if she's curious,but only if sure the key is the right one,and not tell her parents that she tried it.
Renita But you can't avoid it in your situation, so you should try to strengthen your position.
If she doesn't want to talk about it,she can avoid it.Even if not talking together is rarely the best decision,in such situation...
Renita It would be harder if she agreed initially.
Possible,yes.
a_father no boyfriend (with a little bit more than kissing)
Harder,but possible,even with chastity devices.There is several examples here.
Lana In my case I needed extra privilage so I agreed to wear it
Why haven't you choose freedom instead?
Lana If you really want to know how it feels, just try it on when your parents are not home and remove them after a while
I agree.
Lana they could use it as a punishment
It was the case for me,mainly for masturbating or having sex.
And now,I wear it permanently...
Jen I posted it because I was frustrated they offered
Understandable.
Jen Mum cares about hymen
As you've not your hymen anymore,can't you use it to make them understand it is useless to use a chastity belt now?
Jen I notice some disagreement between Mum and Dad.
It can be good for you,if they don't agree about your chastity belt.
Abby82 If you can't avoid the belt completely, your best bet would be to negotiate unsupervised breaks or even access to your keys.
It would be the "less worst" situation,yes.
Angelina such discussions are held before anything is ordered or measured.
It should,yes.
Renita Then you might need to wear a belt just for yourself.
But then,it should be her choice,not what her parents want.And it is not the case.
Would you keep your chastity belt on,if you were free to decide,without any consequences?
And we're pretty skilled at making trolls go away.Except our martial troll 
,always welcomed!
Joh They tray to see the nice things in her live. Nevertheless if they could get rid of it they would do it in an instant.
Exactly!
Ines Truly, your parents did not do anything rightly in this process.
I agree.
Jen There is no bands, Dad confirmed there was nothing else. But there is the rings for attaching them.
Good.But,for several of us,there was "only" the chastity belt at first,and,then they added a chastity bra and/or the thigh bands...
Angelina i disagree that there is no happiness here, many girls are unhappy with the belt, but not unhappy in life as a whole
I can confirm!
Renita Why didn't you ask what was it for if you didn't guess yourself?
As far as i understand,she knew why they measured her,but didn't believe they would do it.
Gina my parents have me wear it because they love me and want the right things for me
And do you agree with them?
Angelina if you believe us or not i don't care
I'm glad for this, I don't want to offend. But I want to be able to say what I'm thinking.
Gina but just maybe her parents are like mine and want only the best for her.
This is true, but they are also wrong.
Vanessa As you've not your hymen anymore,can't you use it to make them understand it is useless to use a chastity belt now?
For Mum the activity is still bad. It is like saying I've stolen and have a criminal record. Well now I have the criminal record so I should just steal again. And even worse it is like I've said I need to steal again. Any conversation like that will make things worse.
Vanessa It can be good for you,if they don't agree about your chastity belt.
Well yes, but it is becoming a proper argument. I hear Mum saying things -to Dad- like didn't you care that I was special for you.
Jen But I want to be able to say what I'm thinking.
Please say what you think. It should only in a respectful and polite way as you can read in the forum. We are open for it and will discuss it with you if we have a different opinion.
Jen This is true, but they are also wrong.
I agree.
Jen didn't you care that I was special for you.
What does your situation have to do with her past? She was a virgin and your father also considered it special.
You are not really a virgin anymore but it is up to you when, with whom and on what occasion you want to become intimate for the first time. This can be at the time of your marriage when you want it. You don't need a CB for that.
Joh I had a look at the web page of MySteel and the D-rings are options. They must explicit include at the order.
Yes, they have to be ordered extra
Gina I'm not saying I'm sure, but just maybe her parents are like mine and want only the best for her.
that is certainly what most parents want, the question is how we react as daughters. good that you can at least accept it.
Vanessa and not tell her parents that she tried it.
right, that is very important
Vanessa It was the case for me,mainly for masturbating or having sex.
and you have to consider that you have already worn the belt for a long time as a punishment which means that parents can still come up with the idea of permanent wearing after a few years. 
Vanessa Good.But,for several of us,there was "only" the chastity belt at first,and,then they added a chastity bra and/or the thigh bands...
right, she should be extremely careful, thighbands are probably not explicitly planned but could be ordered later on
Jen I'm glad for this, I don't want to offend. But I want to be able to say what I'm thinking.
at least I treat everyone the same here for now
Joh What does your situation have to do with her past?
i think many mothers who entered marriage as virgins expect the same from their daughters.
Angelina i think many mothers who entered marriage as virgins expect the same from their daughters.
That was not my point. Her mother blamed her father why he is not sure to support her mother in her proposition. She asked him didn't you care that I was special for you. She implies that it was apparently not important to him.
This is an unfair implication because this was at the past and the time has changed. Also @Jen is not a virgin any more. The CB makes no sense in this context
Renita Chastity belts are pretty outrageous things if you're not already up to your neck in the lifestyle. It would honestly make sense to interpret the threat of a belt as seriously as my mom's frequent threat to ground me until I was 50. It's so ridiculous it FEELS like a joke.
Saintprudence Chastity belts are pretty outrageous things if you're not already up to your neck in the lifestyle
right. usually legal and psychological assessments of a situation like this take into account the 'culture of the person'. What is a appropriate for people differs. Questions such as "is said person living in an isolated community?" "are they secular or more traditional?" should be considered, for example.