Renita But you can't avoid it in your situation, so you should try to strengthen your position.
But I can. It is the point some of the others have been making and it is working. If not started I can just stick with no, nothing else is needed. Already they try to hide it but I notice some disagreement between Mum and Dad.
Jen
The only thing that I can notnota understand is why this entire situation happens after the belt arrival and no before buy it.
And, even it is logical if masturbation is not welcome, the use of the thigh bands, it is not reasonable do not inform you about them.
Frankly all the theme is very strange for me.
However, the main point is that if someone do not want wear a belt, she should not wear it.
Ines what I don't understand is what the effect of finding this forum was. I didn't think this was real even the measuring process Mum did was ridiculous and I joked about it to taunt her because she was being so over the top about what I'd done. If I hadn't read here I don't know I was very needing their approval so I think likely to have tried and I think this is what they expected. But I don't see how it would have worked just lots of misery I think.
But this forum is dangerous too especially before I joined. There is so much rubbish but also maybe 3 people who truthfully wear but with the truth and the stories mixed together and with feeling very anxious anyway it is dangerous ideas.
@Ines you were helpful but now I ask you to read the faq for this forum you are mod of and see if there is anything you disagree.
Jen No she was just good. I'm good too and will wait till married - we've talked about it a lot but Mum cares about hymen. And yes I knew that but didn't think it was as much of an issue.
if you really want to wait, i don't see a problem, if you are worried about not being able to do it, you can try the belt voluntarily, but i wouldn't do it at the moment.
Ines The only thing that I can notnota understand is why this entire situation happens after the belt arrival and no before buy it.
@Jen i agree with @Ines, that is exactly what i mean. such discussions are held before anything is ordered or measured.
Jen I didn't think this was real even the measuring process
hmmm..... that reminds me of myself when i got the belt, i also didn't take my father seriously when he told me, a big mistake, so i missed discussing it seriously, it was apparently the same with you 
Jen But this forum is dangerous too especially before I joined. There is so much rubbish but also maybe 3 people who truthfully wear but with the truth and the stories mixed together and with feeling very anxious anyway it is dangerous ideas.
Sorry, I can't following what you want to say.
Could you write it in a way that not native speaker could understand. Shorter sentence as an example.
Jen I didn't think this was real even the measuring process Mum did was ridiculous and I joked about it to taunt her because she was being so over the top about what I'd done.
You should tell them, you thought it was a joke and you never thought they would do this to you and that this has damaged the relationship to your parents. And you should make clear it is abuse and you would never wear this belt. Afterwards you should block every discussion.
I'm sure, it was your mother's idea and your father wasn't fine with this idea from the beginning. You have a good chance to avoid the belt, but you must be steadfast. Don't even try the belt, even if they say they wouldn't want you to wear it anymore, but just want to see if it fits. No means no. The more negative your attitude concerning the belt, the faster they will realize that it was not a good idea. On the other hand you should be a good daughter in all other things. The better you behave, the less arguments they have.
Joh Jen But this forum is dangerous too especially before I joined. There is so much rubbish but also maybe 3 people who truthfully wear but with the truth and the stories mixed together and with feeling very anxious anyway it is dangerous ideas.
Could you write it in a way that not native speaker could understand. Shorter sentence as an example
I've decided I don't believe most of the stories here. Some I do believe. The truth and the stories mixed together make it harder to tell which is which. At the beginning I was very upset and anxious. I wasn't thinking clearly. I believed more of what I read at the beginning. I thought there was other girls in the same situation and they seemed mostly happy with their lives. I thought I should do this.
Jen The truth and the stories mixed together make it harder to tell which is which.
I have the same problem and it is really difficult to find out. But during the time with reading and later with the communication from some I am certain it is real.
Happiness is a mind set. I believe some are in the situation and worked a way out that it doesn't crush them. They tray to see the nice things in her live. Nevertheless if they could get rid of it they would do it in an instant.
Sorry, to tell you the world is not everywhere pleasant if you look closely.
Jen
I think it is pretty obvious, and even without the time, even more.
In general life is easier, and as wearer, I can say that a situation of forced chastity will destroy a family.
Look you situation, can they force you? No.
Did they try to buy your acceptance? Yes
Did you sell it? No.
Can they do something? No.
And you are not the exception, it is the normal.
However, if I was your parents I would be mad with you for do not refuse prior to the purchase.
Ines Hmm I see what your saying. If it was reasonably decided and then rejected it is a waste of money. But it was not like that, it was ordered before I agreed. They have not mentioned the money.
Joh Happiness is a mind set. I believe some are in the situation and worked a way out that it doesn't crush them. They tray to see the nice things in her live.
I remember a line written somewhere, I don't know which thread: "At least I'll be able to do some sports again". There is no happiness there. But with everything described surely it is not all real.
Jen But it was not like that, it was ordered before I agreed. They have not mentioned the money.
Truly, your parents did not do anything rightly in this process.
Wear a chastity belt is a two sides action.
It is not only they bought a full chastity belt with its thigh bands without discussing the usage, but they bought before your acceptance...
However, when they measured you, you were not in an agreement?
Ines thigh bands
There is no bands, Dad confirmed there was nothing else. But there is the rings for attaching them.
Ines However, when they measured you, you were not in an agreement?
More not believing than disagreeing or agreeing. The measuring was very surprising and kept getting worse. I was actually very rude to Mum what I said when measuring between legs then I felt bad and went along with the rest of it. The measuring made me take it more seriously and I searched for more info.
It's got the little rings on the side like wtf that's not standard is it? On the website it looks like that's extra.
Don't fucking do it, I've seen that movie before. If you put that thing on you will have thighbands on in notime.
You stood your ground, now keep standing it you literally have all leverage.
In general I wouldn't even consider wearing the thing, the fact that they installed D rings without your knowledge shows me that your parents aren't necessarily playing with open cards either.
I agree with Daddy,if you let them put a belt on you once it will be forever.
BikelockFugitive Don't fucking do it, I've seen that movie before. If you put that thing on you will have thighbands on in notime.
Obviously. If they are not stock option, they are put with some intention.
I think that if it is true, it is cheaters' match.
It is working. Great. Keep it up 
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