Daphne's dilemma

How do you plan on having someone here be your keyholder? Wouldn't it need to be someone local?

Daphne Sounds like a long term thing. Do you have multiple copies so you could have one at home for emergencies?

Daphne i see. So part of it is the feeling of someone else in control?

I wish you luck, but I'd also caution you not to rush too quickly into a relationship with a keyholder you don't really know. There's a very important trust aspect at play. You also are looking for someone to exercise a greater degree of control. This is exciting territory, and it can be heady going into it. But even under good circumstances it's not always smooth sailing. Just an FYI.

Daphne I've been thinking of being in chastity for years now. And I'm ready to commit to it,my only question is should I lock myself 24/7 or not? In my opinion i think i should but I'm letting you all join in on this.

You should decide for yourself, you should do what you personally think is right.

Daphne And that's permanent chastity

then do it, i don't think you need our confirmation, we are more there in case you have questions or problems, but in the end the decision is up to you

I just read the original post of this forum and scratch my head in an effort to give a meaningful and useful answer. It is obvious (to me at least) that the proposer of the question doesn't supply near enough information for me to attempt to give a useful answer.

But, in general I suppose I do find it is an interesting question. Exactly what information would one need on which to base a decision on whether to willingly enter chastity by means of some physical device, which would prevent the wearer from giving into temptation? At least such a device would offer a breather period where the wearer could re-evaluate their choices when they are not under the immediate pressure of temptation.

Here I imagine a scenario where the wearer freely enters into a chastity device and uses either a mechanical mechanism (say a time safe) or keyholder who they contract to release them after a time period expires once the request is made ... say the wearer provides advance notice of say three weeks when they wish to be released.

So what information would be pertinent to know about a person before one could advise? There is no way for me to comprise an exhaustive list but things I would consider important would be:

1. Reassurance that the wearer is of sound mind and good health and is of "consenting" age
2. Reassurance that the proposed wearer is not volatile (prone to rash decisions) and that this isn't just some whim
3. Reassurance that the wearer understands the issues of hygiene and that arrangements are made to ensure cleaning can be carried out without actually interrupting the chastity
4. Reassurance that arrangements are made for emergent release incase of trauma or illness.
5. Reassurance the wearer has a valid and "reasonable" reason to wish to remain chaste
6. If two people are involved in the decision I would need reassurance that that the keyholder is ot putting undue pressure on the wearer do do something the wearer doesn't really want and that the keyholder understands all the above issues.

I am sure other wiser members of this forum could add to this list in ways I believe would be important but that I haven't thought of. However, at the moment there is no way I could meaningfully respond to the poll.