Daphne's dilemma

Daphne

College, and I've worn a cage for a few months

Saintprudence

Daphne I’m going to assume requesting parents is not an option, and read between the lines and infer that they don’t yet know you’re trans?

Daphne

Saintprudence

Oh they know about me being trans, they Just won't be my keyholder for chastity

Daphne

Alright if the votes keep up I'll lock myself tonight, 24/7

DraxenZ

How do you plan on having someone here be your keyholder? Wouldn't it need to be someone local?

Daphne

DraxenZ

Mail the keys

DraxenZ

Daphne Sounds like a long term thing. Do you have multiple copies so you could have one at home for emergencies?

Daphne

DraxenZ

Yes, and yes

DraxenZ

Daphne i see. So part of it is the feeling of someone else in control?

Daphne

DraxenZ

Well mostly to make sure i stick to my commitment.

Daphne

It has been done, I'm in chastity now ^^

Vanessa

Daphne

If you want it,and are not forced,don't hesitate to do it.

Saintprudence Since a nearby human key holder is always the best choice.

I agree.

Daphne

Have you found a keyholder?

Daphne if a belt makes that easier...

Chastity belts prevent to use a lot of clothes too...

GoodyProctor

I wish you luck, but I'd also caution you not to rush too quickly into a relationship with a keyholder you don't really know. There's a very important trust aspect at play. You also are looking for someone to exercise a greater degree of control. This is exciting territory, and it can be heady going into it. But even under good circumstances it's not always smooth sailing. Just an FYI.

Daphne

GoodyProctor

I'll be fine thank you ^^

Daphne

Been trying out a pleated skirt ant it's helped hide the cage quite well, i do wonder if a belt makes that easier...

Daphne

Vanessa

I'm holding the keys in a locker box until i have one

As for clothes, would a belt or a cage be more visible with dresses/skirts

Vanessa

Daphne I'm holding the keys in a locker box until i have one

Not perfect,but until you find a keyholder,why not...

Daphne As for clothes, would a belt or a cage be more visible with dresses/skirts

As I haven't experiences with both,I can't tell you...I guess belt,but not sure at all.And not with short dresses/skirts or tight ones.

Daphne

Vanessa

Ah ok, I've worn a pleated skirt today and that went fine while caged. So maybe I'll belt at a later Time? When i have more dresses for it

Vanessa

Daphne When i have more dresses for it

Yes,your clothes should be adapted to hide it.If necessary,you may wait until you get more adapted ones,or go do some shopping!😉

Angelina

I agree.

Angelina

I agree about it too.

Saintprudence it is worth taking the time to find a proper keyholder, even if it takes months or longer.

Right.

Saintprudence “24/7, no releases, taken off for cleaning and emergencies only.”

Yes.

Angelina

Daphne I've been thinking of being in chastity for years now. And I'm ready to commit to it,my only question is should I lock myself 24/7 or not? In my opinion i think i should but I'm letting you all join in on this.

You should decide for yourself, you should do what you personally think is right. 🙂

Daphne

Angelina

And that's permanent chastity

Angelina

Daphne And that's permanent chastity

then do it, i don't think you need our confirmation, we are more there in case you have questions or problems, but in the end the decision is up to you 🙂