Daphne I’m going to assume requesting parents is not an option, and read between the lines and infer that they don’t yet know you’re trans?

    Alright if the votes keep up I'll lock myself tonight, 24/7

    How do you plan on having someone here be your keyholder? Wouldn't it need to be someone local?

      Daphne Sounds like a long term thing. Do you have multiple copies so you could have one at home for emergencies?

        I wish you luck, but I'd also caution you not to rush too quickly into a relationship with a keyholder you don't really know. There's a very important trust aspect at play. You also are looking for someone to exercise a greater degree of control. This is exciting territory, and it can be heady going into it. But even under good circumstances it's not always smooth sailing. Just an FYI.

          Been trying out a pleated skirt ant it's helped hide the cage quite well, i do wonder if a belt makes that easier...

            Daphne

            If you want it,and are not forced,don't hesitate to do it.

            Saintprudence Since a nearby human key holder is always the best choice.

            I agree.

            Daphne

            Have you found a keyholder?

            Daphne if a belt makes that easier...

            Chastity belts prevent to use a lot of clothes too...

              Vanessa

              I'm holding the keys in a locker box until i have one

              As for clothes, would a belt or a cage be more visible with dresses/skirts

                Daphne I'm holding the keys in a locker box until i have one

                Not perfect,but until you find a keyholder,why not...

                Daphne As for clothes, would a belt or a cage be more visible with dresses/skirts

                As I haven't experiences with both,I can't tell you...I guess belt,but not sure at all.And not with short dresses/skirts or tight ones.

                  Vanessa

                  Ah ok, I've worn a pleated skirt today and that went fine while caged. So maybe I'll belt at a later Time? When i have more dresses for it

                    Daphne I've been thinking of being in chastity for years now. And I'm ready to commit to it,my only question is should I lock myself 24/7 or not? In my opinion i think i should but I'm letting you all join in on this.

                    You should decide for yourself, you should do what you personally think is right. 🙂