Daphne's dilemma

Vanessa

I think so.Opening the safe via app or holding the keys would be very similar.

Angelina

Vanessa I think so.Opening the safe via app or holding the keys would be very similar.

but then of course the complete human aspect is lost and i think especially for volunteer wearers the bond with the key holder is important.

Max9

Angelina You hit the nail on the head (A german saying) . This is exactly what makes online keyholding or long distance keyholding untinterresting after some time... it still is a nice guardian for your lock, but it's just by far not the same as having a personaly keyholder.

Vanessa

Angelina

Yes,but,until she found someone who is ok to keep her keys,it would be a good possibility,with a similar purpose.

Angelina

Max9

it depends. if the goal is only to remain chaste, it is enough, but then all tension is lost.

Max9

Angelina Sure, tension... it's just that that way you don't have any personal interaction... and probably also no partner... single life is sad life

Foxies

Max9 single life is sad life

Having experienced both - I can totally agree with this statement - even knowing that for some, life in a relationship can also be very sad.

Angelina

Max9

Foxies

it depends singles can also lead a happy life, but what they lack in relationship must be compensated for through relationships with others (family and friends).

Foxies

Angelina

I think you are right and I agree there are many happy singles.

However, for the first 28 years of my life, I was essentially alone and I never experienced any of the joys that a loving family normally provides. I had my education and my career, but they were poor substitutes. It was just that at that time I didn't know any better. In retrospect those first 28 years were very sad indeed.

Angelina

Vanessa Yes,but,until she found someone who is ok to keep her keys,it would be a good possibility,with a similar purpose.

maybe, but i'm not a big fan of it 😉

Foxies

interesting that reminds me a bit of my father who put his work and my upbringing first and therefore didn't have a woman by his side after he separated from my mother.

I understand what you mean, but it always depends, not every person is suitable for a relationship, many are very social but want to close the door behind them as soon as they get home and have their peace and quiet.

Foxies

Angelina I understand what you mean, but it always depends, not every person is suitable for a relationship, many are very social but want to close the door behind them as soon as they get home and have their peace and quiet.

Smiles - no disagreement from me there. I also know some people like that

Vanessa

Angelina maybe, but i'm not a big fan of it 😉

Even for a short duration?

Angelina

Foxies Smiles - no disagreement from me there. I also know some people like that

me too, that's why i'm sceptical of some of my friends when they are in a relationship, it's often ended very badly.

Angelina

Vanessa Even for a short duration?

yes, as i said, it does break the tension, i think it will put volunteer wearers off the idea rather than promote the idea and the search for a key holder.

Vanessa

Angelina

So,you would suggest to wait until she get a keyholder than doing it this way until it?

Angelina

Vanessa So,you would suggest to wait until she get a keyholder than doing it this way until it?

that I would do , yes 😉

Daphne

Heya, still waiting on a keyholder sadly but for now I've decided to use a time safe and a chastity cage to be locked 24/7. It's been going well so far

Angelina

Daphne

if it works out well for you i'm glad, i'm not a fan of it but for the transition to a real key holder it seems it can work 🙂

Daphne

Angelina

Yeah I'm lucky though as my girlfriend has reconsidered and may keyhold

Vanessa

Daphne

Good she may accept it,it would be better!🙂

Angelina

Daphne Yeah I'm lucky though as my girlfriend has reconsidered and may keyhold

very good, I'm happy for you 😃

Have you already clarified the exact conditions (hygiene etc.)?

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