Daphne's dilemma

Angelina i'm sorry for you, but i wouldn't give the keys to a stranger. there are boxes where you can keep the keys and set a time when the box should open again, maybe that would be an idea, at least until you have found a suitable key holder.

you can also enable a person to open them via app... if @Daphne wants a heyholder, that would be an option.

well, this is an interesting thing to read after a few days off! Daphne, you should probably know that anything Pru says is just really how she wants to be treated. Or how she would have liked it in college before we met. Though you both do seem to be similar so maybe it works for you. No, I won't hold your keys.

Saintprudence use “permanent” as a synonym for “24/7, minus cleaning times”

Right.And emergency key.

Angelina

Right.

Max9 you can also enable a person to open them via app... if @Daphne wants a heyholder, that would be an option.

right, but as i said before it should not be a stranger and if it is someone she knows, then he/she can also hold the keys naturally.

Angelina

I think so.Opening the safe via app or holding the keys would be very similar.

Vanessa I think so.Opening the safe via app or holding the keys would be very similar.

but then of course the complete human aspect is lost and i think especially for volunteer wearers the bond with the key holder is important.

Angelina You hit the nail on the head (A german saying) . This is exactly what makes online keyholding or long distance keyholding untinterresting after some time... it still is a nice guardian for your lock, but it's just by far not the same as having a personaly keyholder.

Max9

it depends. if the goal is only to remain chaste, it is enough, but then all tension is lost.

Max9 single life is sad life

Having experienced both - I can totally agree with this statement - even knowing that for some, life in a relationship can also be very sad.

Angelina

Yes,but,until she found someone who is ok to keep her keys,it would be a good possibility,with a similar purpose.

Angelina

I think you are right and I agree there are many happy singles.

However, for the first 28 years of my life, I was essentially alone and I never experienced any of the joys that a loving family normally provides. I had my education and my career, but they were poor substitutes. It was just that at that time I didn't know any better. In retrospect those first 28 years were very sad indeed.

Vanessa Yes,but,until she found someone who is ok to keep her keys,it would be a good possibility,with a similar purpose.

maybe, but i'm not a big fan of it

Foxies

interesting that reminds me a bit of my father who put his work and my upbringing first and therefore didn't have a woman by his side after he separated from my mother.

I understand what you mean, but it always depends, not every person is suitable for a relationship, many are very social but want to close the door behind them as soon as they get home and have their peace and quiet.

Angelina I understand what you mean, but it always depends, not every person is suitable for a relationship, many are very social but want to close the door behind them as soon as they get home and have their peace and quiet.

Smiles - no disagreement from me there. I also know some people like that

Foxies Smiles - no disagreement from me there. I also know some people like that

me too, that's why i'm sceptical of some of my friends when they are in a relationship, it's often ended very badly.

Angelina maybe, but i'm not a big fan of it

Even for a short duration?

Vanessa Even for a short duration?

yes, as i said, it does break the tension, i think it will put volunteer wearers off the idea rather than promote the idea and the search for a key holder.

Angelina

So,you would suggest to wait until she get a keyholder than doing it this way until it?

Vanessa So,you would suggest to wait until she get a keyholder than doing it this way until it?

that I would do , yes