Daphne

Ah, OK. I concluded from your previous post that they were not attached at all, and you relied purely on the tightness of the bands and stickiness of the silicone to keep them in place, and I couldn't imagine that was very escape-proof. But connected to a corset seems like a good solution too (as long as you can't remove the corset either of course 😉 )
Does this also mean that you wear the bands relatively high up your thighs? That would make the 4cm chain more doable.

      carg

      I lock the corset too yes, and i got longer chains from my corset to the thigh bands to compensate so no the 4cm is still tough

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          Daphne That is quite the setup. I'm glad you are doing it voluntarily, because being forced to wear your equipment would be even harder.
          You're lucky to have found a keyholder who supports it all, but also, as far as I can tell, doesn't pressure you to do more.

          P.S. I'm sorry if me bringing up the situation with your gender was not really something you wanted to talk about. I wanted to understand your situation better, but perhaps you just want to be seen as a girl, and not constantly explain about your birth gender.

              carg .S. I'm sorry if me bringing up the situation with your gender was not really something you wanted to talk about. I wanted to understand your situation better, but perhaps you just want to be seen as a girl,

              I indeed prefer to be seen as a girl, hence why i want to be belted for life

                  Daphne

                  ah ok, that is also an interesting combination 😉

                  Daphne hence why i want to be belted for life

                  you can also be seen as a girl without being belted 😉

                        Rina Yes and that makes it hard for me to be open about my interest in chastity belt

                        Our forum is good for it!😉

                        I understand it can be harder to discuss it truly on more fetishists forum...

                        Daphne

                        Congratulation,it seems not easy.

                        youdontknowme

                        I think the main customers are wearers who use it only as a game,or in DS relationship.

                        Angelina you can also be seen as a girl without being belted 😉

                        I agree.

                                Angelina you can also be seen as a girl without being belted 😉

                                I know but being belted is very important to me, being a chaste lady is a big goal of mine. One I'm unsure how to properly achieve

                                    Daphne

                                    no matter if you reach the goal, you will remain a woman for me and if you reach the goal, then a chaste woman. 😉

                                        Angelina

                                        Thank you, any tips perhaps? Once i finally can commit to being a chaste lady?

                                            Daphne Thank you, any tips perhaps? Once i finally can commit to being a chaste lady?

                                            difficult, I think it helps not to have the key, the rest happens "automatically". 😂

                                                Avery

                                                I understand most of that (bar the bikini part)

                                                And i was thinking of trying out those school uniforms suggested to me earlier as my maim outfit

                                                    Daphne That does indeed help haha

                                                    😉

                                                    Daphne My question is more about clothing and the like

                                                    Daphne And i was thinking of trying out those school uniforms suggested to me earlier as my maim outfit

                                                    you have almost given yourself the answer. i personally find that a school uniform is very reminiscent of the "chaste girl style". 😉

                                                            Angelina you have almost given yourself the answer. i personally find that a school uniform is very reminiscent of the "chaste girl style". 😉

                                                            For sure, i just gotta find out how much uniform i want, like just blouse, tie, skirt or full on gymslip and blazer

                                                                Angelina

                                                                Well said.

                                                                Angelina it helps not to have the key

                                                                I agree.

                                                                Daphne

                                                                Ban sexy clothes,like the ones that reveal more skin than necessary to look feminine.

                                                                        Vanessa Ban sexy clothes,like the ones that reveal more skin than necessary to look feminine

                                                                        Oh for sure, the question now becomes. How deep do o wanna go into the school uniform look

                                                                          Daphne And i was thinking of trying out those school uniforms suggested to me earlier as my maim outfit

                                                                          Do you mean in your spare time, or do you also consider it for work? Especially for job interviews that might make it harder to be taken seriously? If so, you might consider having different uniform requirements for work (just blouse + skirt) and for private (full on set).