Daphne That is quite the setup. I'm glad you are doing it voluntarily, because being forced to wear your equipment would be even harder.
You're lucky to have found a keyholder who supports it all, but also, as far as I can tell, doesn't pressure you to do more.
P.S. I'm sorry if me bringing up the situation with your gender was not really something you wanted to talk about. I wanted to understand your situation better, but perhaps you just want to be seen as a girl, and not constantly explain about your birth gender.