Daphne's dilemma

youdontknowme

thank you, i think i will still get confused often and so that there is no misunderstanding, here in the forum everyone is accepted by me as how he/she feels about him/herself. i only ask because it can be difficult with technical questions, because a transwoman can hardly wear the same belt as i do.

Daphne To answer I'm born male but identify as a girl

then you are a woman for me, but thanks for the explanation

Rina about belt specifically designed for transgenders.

i wonder where the difference to classic men's/women's belts should be. ?

Angelina I had a lot to learn the first time a person I was socializing with came out as trans as well. As an advocate for gender blindness and radically equal rights, I had a hard time understanding why a person would want to be defined by their gender.

Angelina i wonder where the difference to classic men's/women's belts should be. ?

Many manufacturers of chastity belts have some product line aimed primarily at crossdressing men that may well be suitable for male-to-female transgender people. Neosteel calls it the she-male line, for example. Those typically feature the penis tube of the male belt, but the crotch band has a flat profile similar to a female belt, so it does not leave a masculine shape (the crotch bulge caused by external genitalia) under clothes. Some of them go one step beyond, like FancySteel's Sissy belt, and have a crotch plate in a shape imitating what can only be described as a steel vulva.

carg Those are not the common definition of transgender or transsexual. Transgender and transsexual are fairly hard to distinguish, the way I understand it, transsexuality is pretty much the underlying biological phenomenon (the genitals developed one way, the brain another), whereas transgender is the mental state of considering oneself a different gender identity than the genitals point towards. But I am no expert and may be mistaken on that. But between sex and gender, sex is always the biological/physical part and gender the social one, which does not align with your definition.

carg I have not heard of the opposite, for women who want to have a man's bulge, but there might be belts with an external tube that could also fit a woman's anatomy? Or just put a rolled-up sock in their panties over a female belt?

There are actual items called "packers" that can be placed in underwear to give the lower body a more masculine shape, ranging from cloth cups to silicone penis replicas. Though right now my imagination is running a bit wild... some belts have attachments for a strap-on dildo, and I am kinda imagining a flaccid strap-on now.

youdontknowme

thank you for the explanations

carg since their body is made to match their identity, so a transgender girl should be able use a female belt.

but not every transgender person has already had surgery.

Rina

so in a nutshell, can we say that transgender belts are built for the biological gender but are visually designed according to the identitary gender (sorry i don't know how to put it better)?

Angelina

I agree I've sometimes troubles to know it too...

Daphne Regarding thigh bands, I'm wearing them 24/7 with a 4cm chain

Very short chain;is it enough to manage your daily activities?

Rina Chastity belt manufacturers like Fancy Steel or Access Denied markets it as "shemale" / "sissy" belt, which I don't like wording of their marketing, though.

Probably they name it this way as chastity belts are mainly marketed for fetishists.

Vanessa Probably they name it this way as chastity belts are mainly marketed for fetishists.

There is some correlation among interest in chastity devices and dysphoria from presenting as male, but while the people interested in chastity belts have an above-average population of male-to-female transgender people, they also have an even more above-average ratio of male-to-female crossdressers, and the latter make up a much larger market segment than the former.

Daphne as rn i just use a cage

Oh, I had not expected that: how does that work with thighbands, if there is no belt to attach them to?

Rina Well… that might be one that may explain it in easy way, since its visual design would align with MTF trans wearer’s gender identity!

ah ok, i think i understand

Rina Yes and that makes it hard for me to be open about my interest in chastity belt, although my purpose would be far from fetish use for me

you should be open with it, you are open about your gender identity so the same should apply to the belt. being chaste has no specific gender

carg how does that work with thighbands, if there is no belt to attach them to?

good question, i don't understand it either

Daphne

But what do you attach the thighbands to?

Daphne

Ah, OK. I concluded from your previous post that they were not attached at all, and you relied purely on the tightness of the bands and stickiness of the silicone to keep them in place, and I couldn't imagine that was very escape-proof. But connected to a corset seems like a good solution too (as long as you can't remove the corset either of course )
Does this also mean that you wear the bands relatively high up your thighs? That would make the 4cm chain more doable.

Daphne That is quite the setup. I'm glad you are doing it voluntarily, because being forced to wear your equipment would be even harder.
You're lucky to have found a keyholder who supports it all, but also, as far as I can tell, doesn't pressure you to do more.

P.S. I'm sorry if me bringing up the situation with your gender was not really something you wanted to talk about. I wanted to understand your situation better, but perhaps you just want to be seen as a girl, and not constantly explain about your birth gender.