Should I become a key holder ?

Vanessa The main test would be 2 to 3 weeks alone with your girlfriend,without taking her belt off except for showering...

of course, but at the moment camryn is still at school, in the summer holidays we will be together for 3 weeks, then it will be decided how it will go on after that.

Sara2001 Yes, and I still think a way for her to try it during the week would make her decision even easier. I think a closed envelope could still help a lot, because it's very easy to use, she has full control in case of emergency or in case she want to stop this, she could experience the feeling of wearing it without being under your control, she could feel how it is to do it for herself with a choice and of course she could show you how much she is into it, when she gives you the closed envelope back after a week at home.

i am still not a big fan of the envelopes, of course she can test it herself, as far as i know she is planning to do it this weekend. she will lock herself in the belt 24 hours before she is with me and then give me the keys. but the problem remains the same with the envelopes, either she opens the envelope or the envelope stays closed. there is no communication and communication is very important. i don't care if the envelope is open or closed at the end of the week, but i want to know what she feels, why she wants the keys and if i can convince her not to take the keys.

Joh Not if you have an agreement that she will first talk with you.

that's right and i think camryn would also talk to me first, i don't know yet. we'll wait and see how it develops until mid august.

Vanessa You would decide it right after trying for 2 to 3 weeks or wait a bit after?Some time to think about how it was for her would be useful...

now our contract runs until mid august, then camryn starts school again and i start my studies shortly after. it would be good to clarify beforehand how we want to continue.

Vanessa Not a bad idea,to extend a bit the duration this way.

that's right and almost everyone can keep themselves under control for 24 hours

Vanessa I meant,would you have a few days/weeks to think about it between the end of your trying during 2 to 3 weeks and the decision about continuing it or not?

we are thinking about it now, as soon as the contract ends we will decide how to proceed, that is why we created this "light contract".

Vanessa I agree,otherwise it would be similar to excessive masturbation.

it's getting exciting, camryn sent me a picture this morning of her locking herself in. her goal is to hold out until friday and then give me the keys for the weekend, so 5 days in total.

Vanessa Any idea on what your decision would be,for now?

at the moment i would prefer to extend the current contract, it provides some relaxation because camryn doesn't feel guilty anymore (or at least much less) and at the same time it's not too hard

Vanessa Very good if she can manage it!

Increasing the duration step by step is a good idea,I think.

i think so too and since an hour ago i have the keys

Vanessa How the week-end went?

actually quite good. 5 days was also a long time for her and she was very aroused a few times, especially at the end, but she didn't ask me for the keys.

Nevertheless, I think she was very relieved when she was able to open up again

Vanessa Do you think she would be able to wear it a full week before the start of the 2 to 3 weeks try?

she will be with me for 3 weeks in the summer, maybe she can close herself 2 to 3 days before, but i think in the long run it is better if i accompany her.

Sara2001 What are her feelings about the 2-3 weeks? Is she looking forward to it? I have heard that it takes 6 weeks for us to get used to a new routine.

she is curious, she has never worn the belt for such a long time, unfortunately we don't have the 6 weeks at the moment, half of the summer holidays, that was the deal with my father and that's 3 weeks. of course she can lock herself before and after but without a key holder success is very unlikely.

Joh And how do feel about what she is doing for you?

i don't quite understand the question? camryn always does everything to make me as happy as possible and to optimise our relationship as much as possible every day so that we become one