So your bf only has a key for cleaning and he dosn't allow you to orgasm at all? When did you first masturbate, were you told not to, and when do you think it became excessive. Who talked you in to being locked and were you allowed any relief. How old is your bf, have you talked about him also being locked , maybe Jake could keyhold for him as you shouldn't.
No, my bf is the one in charge now, my parents' key is for backup. The cleaning reason was why my parents agreed to give him the key. He allows me to orgasm once a month or two, but not more.
I started masturbating once in a while when I was 11 or 12, but when I was 15 it reached a point when I would to it 3-5x a day, even during breaks in school toilets. My parents told me a few times that this was too much, but one time they came with a chastity cage, briefly explained what it is and told me to put it on which I did. They didn't force me, but you could hardly call that optional. The first few months they didn't allow me to relief at all, but then it was once a month or two.
I didn't talk with my bf about him being locked. Also, I don't think that Jake who is 16 should be having anyone's keys.
We played floorball together when we were in secondary school. He was locked for the same reason, but he didn't want to tell at first. I never specifically asked, but I assume his parents have his key. He used to be in HolyTrainer, but now he has CB6000s.
Well, I think they took a guess the first time. Unsurprisingly, they got it one size too big, so they ordered me a smaller one the next day. Over the years, I switched back to the bigger size, which fits me just fine, and I wear it until today. Funny thing is, when they measured Jake, they discovered that he fitted into the small version, so he has it now 
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As with me and my boyfriend, I don't know about having sex yet. He already showed me how I can relieve myself using prostate, but on the other hand, the releases are now less frequent (more to the once in a two months).
Nate I'm still in the cage all the time so nothing has really changed there and of course, they still have one of the two keys.
why doesn't your boyfriend let you out of the cage? doesn't he want to have fun?
Nate the releases are now less frequent (more to the once in a two months).
I don't understand, do you have breaks or not and do you have sex during the breaks?
We still didn't get to having sex together, so there's no point for him to release me more often. We'll see how this develops in the future.
My parents allowed me to relieve myself once a month during cleaning, and my bf continued with that at first. There are no breaks, I always went straight back to the cage after that. By less frequent releases, I mean this is now happening only once per two months.
When I was 15 and was locked for the first time, I only agreed to it because I knew it was probably needed. However, I really hated it and wanted to masturbate. I even tried to pull off the cage several times, but it wouldn't come off. My parents always found this and punished me. I only got used to wearing it after a year or so, but still.
I'm still playing floorball (well, when it's covid-safe) but now under uni class. My friend Robin is here too (since he's just in different faculty). I also go to the gym 2-3x a week with my boyfriend, and Jake sometimes joins too. When I'm really horny, I feel a lot more aggressive on the field and it makes me workout harder.
Actually, Robin has the metal version of CB, because his parents wanted to and he wasn't given a choice. He's filling the cage entirely, and he said it's maybe a little too small. I think it's better a little bit too small, rather than way too big.
Yeah, I agree with you - after all, Jake and I still wear HolyTrainers. My parents have given me a choice to switch my cage when I was 17, but I didn't really want to. When Jake was locked before moving to study, he said he wanted to have the same cage a me. Unfortunately, my friend Robin wasn't given any choice.
I moved on campus at the end of August last year and I first met him beginning November.
Don't you (all) think it's still too early to have sex together?
Of course we want it in the future, but right now, we're fine with how it is.
Btw, just to be clear: I don't consider the once a month unlocks to relieve myself as sex, even when he's there.
How did your parents punish you when you tried to remove the cage. Did Jake want to copy his big brother and be locked as well? Did you warn him not to get into a masturbation habit and leave his dick alone. Is Robin ever allowed relief? I hope you and Jake will both want to stop getting relief, the earlier you stop the better. I think you and your bf are being sensible in not having early sex. Is your BF the same age as you, I'd hope that he will also want to abstain from sexual activity until you are both able have sex when you have passed your courses.
They spanked me, like they always did when we misbehaved. I also wasn't allowed any release until they were sure I was "not addicted to masturbation anymore".
Neither Jake or I wanted to be locked. I agreed just because I knew that I needed it. Of course, since I shared a room with Jake at home, he could see that I'm locked and knew very well he would end like me if he masturbated too much.
Unfortunately for him, given his relationships with girls, our parents wouldn't allow him to move out to study elsewhere unless he was caged.
Robin once mentioned that he was allowed at the end of each semester, but that was more than a year ago. Although we talk about our cages sometimes, we don't discuss that at all.
At least for me and Jake, it's not about being denied any relief completely. After all, normal masturbation is not unhealthy. The problem is when the masturbation starts to interfere with your normal activities or there's possibility that you could have sex. That's why we're caged. But maybe you have different opinion this?
My bf is a year older, he's 20. He isn't caged and I'm fine with that just like he's fine (and actually helps me) with me staying locked.
Nate We still didn't get to having sex together, so there's no point for him to release me more often. We'll see how this develops in the future.
My parents allowed me to relieve myself once a month during cleaning, and my bf continued with that at first. There are no breaks, I always went straight back to the cage after that. By less frequent releases, I mean this is now happening only once per two months.
thanks for the clarification, due to the splitting of the posts i did not understand the connection at first, but now i understand it 
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is it? I have no ides about that.