Reasons a chastity belt sucks?

Joh

Laura And produce a negative outcome

You never know if you not tested this and one from Fancy Steel.
From what I see it looks similar to one of Fancy Steel. Sure it will not in the same quality but to get an answer to your own curiosity is certainly enough.

Angelina

Joh From what I see it looks similar to one of Fancy Steel.

yes but i am as unconvinced about the quality of fancysteel as i am about the quality of a cheap belt. of course @Jen can order a belt for 50$ on the internet and test it, but it would probably not be a comparable result and would lead to disappointment.

Ines

Jen Yikes what about sitting on a flat seat - like next to someone on a bus seat?

Hard surfaces are not advisable, however hands behind "sit spots" help to manage it.
At the end you learn to sit.

Vanessa

Jen But I want to try in my own time - not have any promises or pressure or anything which might make my anxiety blow up.

As they kept the keys for the locked chastity belt,it can be hard...

Jen Curious is a good way of putting it - maybe even curious about long term but there is issues and I cant even think how so not now I think.

You would be able to know more if you want to try long term or not after a short trying,but not without a try,I think.

Jen (asking for key).. no idea really just a bit scared about bringing it up

You should remember that,now they've accepted you would not wear it,you can decide what would be the conditions for trying.They don't accept these?Ok,so you wouldn't try it.I guess they would prefer to let you try it under your conditions,hoping you accept to wear it after it,than making you not even trying.

Jonas I used a combination key safe a whole lot, using an app to do time-locking.

It could be useful for @Jen,yes.

Joh

Not a good idea.It would be less comfortable than her own belt,and could disgust her even more of chastity,for the wrong reasons(cheap belts and major brand's ones are very different).

Laura

I agree.

Renita It souldn't be such an option. Either try locked belt or not try at all.

Considering the situation about chastity belt in her home,I think it could be a good way to trust each other better,necessary if she decide to use it.

Ines At the end you learn to sit.

I agree.

Angelina

Vanessa I guess they would prefer to let you try it under your conditions,hoping you accept to wear it after it,than making you not even trying.

i don't know if i agree with this statement. of course the parents would prefer @Jen to try, but i doubt if they will accept it on @Jen's terms. parents prefer to keep control and i don't know how this will develop in the long run.

Joh

Vanessa Not a good idea.It would be less comfortable than her own belt,and could disgust her even more of chastity,for the wrong reasons(cheap belts and major brand's ones are very different).

She should have this in mind. But if she gos this way she would have everything in her hand. The first result could be the curiosity is satisfied. If she want to explore it further she has to rethink how to go on that it is meaningful.
Step by step is most of the time the best way.

Vanessa

Angelina

If they don't accept,no try.They could easily finally accept,in this case.

Joh

Even knowing it is worse with a cheap belt,it would give her false feelings about it.

Angelina

I agree.Not a good idea to try a cheap one.

Raziel

Jen
What kind of lock does your belt have? Is it a normal padlock, small padlock, or the box with the internal locking mechanism that only the key can extract? If your parents are not giving you the key, you might as well file it and try to destroy the padlock yourself. It'll take about 4 hours, but it'll be worth it!

Jen

Raziel I haven't asked yet will be at least another month.
It's my-steel - has a lock that fits very closely over a center pin thing

Raziel

Jen
If you ever get lockpicking tools, I can guide you how to get it out. I do suggest practicing on a bigger masterlock first. If you do have the box with your chastity belt, I'd also say just destroy the lock and keep the new lock and key to yourself, without your parents knowing about it. This way, you can try it out and still have your freedom.

Angelina

Joh

i know that you are an "opponent" of chastity belts and by this simple trick you would lead @Jen to the opinion that the belt is generally bad, because you cannot apply the same standard to a cheap belt as to a branded belt. i do not want to say that a belt is generally good or bad, but it would not be an objective result.

Joh

Angelina i know that you are an "opponent" of chastity belts

You are totally wrong. I am not against chastity belts. I am against forced chastity belts!

Joh

Angelina i do not want to say that a belt is generally good or bad, but it would not be an objective result

It is dependent on what do you want to archive. As I wrote it would be a good way for her curiosity and she has to take in to account the belt is a cheap one. On the other hand she would be totally independent on her parents.

Angelina

Joh You are totally wrong. I am not against chastity belts. I am against forced chastity belts!

oh ok, i remembered it differently, sorry 😂 but i stand by the rest of my statement 😉

Angelina

Joh

i completely agree with your arguments, i just think that it is not enough to say definitively if a belt is good or bad

Vanessa If they don't accept,no try.

right and then we are in the same situation as we are now and have not moved a step forward 😂

Jen Maybe by then the cheep belts will be good.

i see it differently, but if @Joh could convince you more i accept it, in the end you have to decide for yourself 😉

Joh

Vanessa Even knowing it is worse with a cheap belt,it would give her false feelings about it.

It is her decision which weight more. That the parents will be involved or the feeling will not as good as with an expensive belt.

Jen

Joh It is her decision which weight more. That the parents will be involved or the feeling will not as good as with an expensive belt.

Yeah that's messed up isn't it. I think if I can't get the key I'll wait a few years till I'm independent. Maybe by then the cheep belts will be good.

Vanessa

Joh

Of course,it's her decision.

But she should be well informed about the pros and cons.

Jen Maybe by then the cheep belts will be good.

I doubt it.

Joh Maybe she will find a sponsor for the test.

My-Steel,or Neosteel, with the slogan "so good that even reluctant wearers turn into willingly one as soon as it is on"?😉

Sin

I guess you're lucky,but good it is fine for you!🙂

Jen

Another reason to not buy another one.

Joh

Jen Good decision 👍

Sin

Jen Maybe by then the cheep belts will be good.

Maybe I just got lucky... but mine is solid, comfortable, and easily adjustable for width and length. I wasn't expecting it to be good, I thought I would just use it for training. But now I wear it all the time and I don't feel the need to upgrade at all. I was pleasantly surprised. :-)

Joh

Angelina i see it differently, but if @Joh could convince you more i accept it, in the end you have to decide for yourself

Maybe she will find a sponsor for the test. The open point is how to send a CB to someone without revealing the identity?

Angelina

Joh Maybe she will find a sponsor for the test.

$2 from anyone on the forum 😂
but yes i agree, it is also a financial problem, good belts are usually expensive

Megan

Sin Maybe I just got lucky... but mine is solid, comfortable, and easily adjustable for width and length. I wasn't expecting it to be good, I thought I would just use it for training. But now I wear it all the time and I don't feel the need to upgrade at all. I was pleasantly surprised. :-)

Well you are awesome. There is a certain amount of attention to detail and intelligence in getting the good fit that will keep someone from chaffing or urinating down her own leg...

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