curious

yes, because @Ines doesn't think that's right. in a lesbian relationship (and i agree with you) it is not possible any other way πŸ˜‚

    Angelina yes, because @Ines doesn't think that's right.

    Exactly my point.
    I do not understand why she always feels compelled to push her preferences into a discussion which is not about herself or her relationship. If I know my opinion deviates from what the wider society considers "normal", I fight for my right to live according to my values but I do not try to push these values onto everyone else.
    And thatΒ΄s is why I put forward that question to her, because I wanted to point that out.

      curious I do not understand why she always feels compelled to push her preferences into a discussion which is not about herself or her relationship.

      We need a score keeper to determine how many times she does it and how many times you do it.

      curious I just observed that Ines always puts forward her ideas

      Next time, I will put your ideas, I just observed that other ideas bother you. πŸ˜‚
      Do you know that Maija and her girlfriend are of same Church? Do you even know values of that congregation for girls?
      No.

      curious If I know my opinion deviates from what the wider society considers "normal"

      Rest of us think that our ideas are mainstream! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. Thankfully we have you to enlighten us!
      πŸ˜‚πŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈ

      curious but I do not try to push these values onto everyone else.

      Aha... you are trying to do it even in the mere discussion, but you say that I am trying to do it... πŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈπŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈπŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈ

      curious why she always feels compelled to push her preferences into a discussion

      Because I do not want push your preferences. 😊and, in the same sense, I do not know because you are always compelled to correct to everyone here. I have warned you about your attempts of cut freedom of opinion of users.

      curious

      i disagree, @Ines has the right to participate in any discussion like everyone else. both you and i also participate in discussions even though the situation has nothing to do with our own

      Ines well, she is. But even though she doesn't like being locked, she likes to take control over me (and I like it too). My father and Anna are actually working out some details about her keyholding my bra and thighband padlock when no family members are around (this would enable me to have the chain, currently I have to wear the padlock since no-one would be there to lock and unlock it)

        Maija I can understand the thighband padlock but am a bit surprised she will also get your bra padlock as well. What are the circumstances when she would get to unlock your bra?

        Maija

        i am impressed, but then the bra would no longer be a part of the goal that you are chaste, but would become a "toy" of your relationship. i think for you it is an improvement, but i don't understand it

        Maija Do you have any idea what conditions are attached to it or have the negotiations already ended?

        9 days later

        Maija But even though she doesn't like being locked, she likes to take control over me

        We know she has to use a chastity belt too, but does she use thigh bands an bra too?
        What is the regime of usage for the girls in her family?

          Ines currently she also wears bands and bra. Other women in her family do the same

            Maija Other women in her family do the same

            Fair.
            Does she use them 24/7 as you?

              Maija currently she also wears bands and bra. Other women in her family do the same

              so she also comes from a family where chastity is a kind of family thing? does she have sisters who also wear chastity devices?

                Ines Does she use them 24/7 as you?

                Yes

                Angelina so she also comes from a family where chastity is a kind of family thing? does she have sisters who also wear chastity devices?

                Yes, her mother and sister wears as well

                  Maija Yes

                  So, if your father allow her the control of some of your keys, you will have much more freedom than her.

                  Maija her mother and sister wears as well

                  Fair.

                    Maija ItΕ› fair when all "girls" wear, same rules

                    @Bryan ,

                    Maija No, we don't think it would be wise. But we have observed that we both like when I submit to her, and she likes the control.

                    Ines So, if your father allow her the control of some of your keys, you will have much more freedom than her.

                    somehow it all makes very little sense. @Maija's girlfriend gets control over the keys, thus has control over @Maija and yet less freedom? it's all very confusing somehow. i actually believe the story, but the logic is unclear. πŸ˜‚

                      4 days later

                      Angelina somehow it all makes very little sense. @Maija's girlfriend gets control over the keys, thus has control over @Maija and yet less freedom? it's all very confusing somehow. i actually believe the story, but the logic is unclear. πŸ˜‚

                      No, the fact that she can open my chastity bra by herself gives her more power, not me